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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: i know he liked me a lot since the last year, it was so obvious,but at one point i started ignoring him. a few months ago he tried several times to greet me, but i didn't hear him and sometimes i didn't answer on purpose. last week when i was with my best friend i saw him in front of our school, so we went to see where he goes.my mobile phone rang and i returned to school. he was sitting in front of a house and looked at me like he wanted to tell me something.while i was in the front of my school i saw him looking towards my direction and when i caught his eye, he looked away.then i and my friend left the school and she went in a different direction. i decided to pass by the house where he was standing at.he was looking in the opposite direction and when i passed by him, he turned his head and said ''hi,(my name)'' with a soft voice after he yawned a little. (this might sound silly).he never stays with girls, excepting me, but yesterday i saw him with 2 younger girls with whom he sometimes plays volley. he was in front of me and he turned his head towards my direction twice,looking straight in my eyes and he was speaking very loud, like he used to do with me last year.later on,he was heading to a class and was with 2 girl mates.when he saw me,he started to talk very loud again.i don't get it.he doesn't come after me at all,but when he sees me he looks sweetly,smiles at me,tryes to get my attention or sometimes avoids looking in my eyes.does he still like me like before?does he like me less than before?or he likes me just when he sees me?i'm not that important for him anymore if he doesn't come after me?i'm 13 and he's 14,if that counts.
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reader, Spamalot +, writes (10 April 2009):
Guys can be very cryptic and unclear sometimes; intentionally or unintentionally. It sounds like this guy is perhaps a little confused about whether he likes you or not or is a little shy about actually talking to you. So he might still like you but if he does, he needs some more encouraging.
However, it must be asked if you like him. If he doesn't seem like your kind of person, there's nothing that says that you must like him back. If you don't like him or he doesn't seem like a nice person, there's nothing telling you that you have to like him (back).
Hope it helped & good luck! :)
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