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writes:I'm a female who is going to be "going down" on another girl soon, but I'm really worried I won't do it right, does anyone have any tips (from males and females is cool). Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): I disagree with Tewebag. Staying on the clit can be a bit boring, and if you're too aggressive, some woman may find it downright painful. Be aware of detailed guides. Every women is different, and there's no 'road map' or correct way to 'do it'. Figuring it out is, however, fun in itself!Firstly, I'd start off by kissing the inner thighs, sort out everywhere outside the area of her underwear. A bit of anticipation will drive her crazy. Kiss her through her underwear, plant small kisses everywhere you can, lightly stroke her, and if you're lucky, she'll be weaving her hands in your hair and moving her hips up a bit. Once you've got her all turned on and such, spread her gently with your fingers and start licking. Experiment with different licks -- soft, big licks with a very flat tongue up and down, licking her in the vagina, more 'flicking' licks with your tongue pointed, taking her clitoris in your mouth like you're licking some cake mix from your finger, etc. Go gentle at first, and build the intensity. Gauge her reactions to see what she likes best. Doing the same thing over and over can get boring, but if she's moaning like crazy don't change what you're doing! Most likely, to get her to come you'll need to flick your tongue back and forth across or around her clitoris in circles. Personally, being licked while having two fingers inside me, curled up towards my stomach in a kind of 'come-hither' motion to stimulate my g-spot really works for me. Or, if you're less of a multi-tasker, you could try putting a small vibrator inside her while you lick her. (Might want to master the basics first!)If she's more active, suggest she straddles your face. Some women could feel quite vulnerable like this, but it's a lot of fun, and she'll be able to take a more active role.Have fun, don't be scared of doing it wrong (like all sex, it's trial and error) and make sure she returns the favour when you're done. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Make sure she takes her pants off all the way. There's nothing worse then trying to get your face between her legs and she can't spread them cause her pants are halfway on. Trust me, i know from experience.A tip from me might be finger her and play with her clit at the same time. And be aggressive! It feels much better when you can um, actually feel it.
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reader, Lost_Soul85 +, writes (10 April 2009):
Just imagine your eating an ice cream / lolly pop - push your fingers in when she starts getting really into it, use your fingers to work the spongy bit inside the top of her vagina.
Like I said, imagine her clit is a melting ice cream.
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reader, Tewebag  +, writes (10 April 2009):
well you need to stay on the clit and not in the vaginia as much. just move your tonuge around in a circle on the clit. sometimes moving back and forth over it. if you want a very detailed way on doing it , look up a member on this site called DoubleM. Use the search code to do DoubleM on anything that has to do with oral. good luck
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