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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

He dumped my BFF because he likes me instead. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - My best friend has been dating this boy for about 6 months, and he has just dumped her. But, he dumped her because he likes me instead. To make it even more complicated, I like him too. I really want to date him but it will hurt my best friend ...

We're very close... I think I love her, should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - There is this girl who is my friend for over 3 months now. She comes around to visit me, always laughs all the time when we are together, touches me frequently and looks at me in the eyes. I wrote a love poem for her and asked her if she loved it ...

I don't like giving and getting gifts from my boyfriend, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I know this is a strange fear but I don't like giving and recieving gifts from my boyfriend. I don't mind giving and recieving gifts from my friends either the same sex or opposite sex but it's happened with all my past relationships. I am with a g...

I feel like she's replaced me and I really miss him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - hi. so ive got my best friend and hes a boy. were soo close and i love him to bits. hes soo important to me and we're always together. but recently we started getting closer than friends but decided that we would be better off as friends. but now he ...

I like a guy who is younger than me soooo much.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I like this guy who is younger than me. Whenever I waken up I always have a smile on my face because I know I am going to see him and whenever he talks to me or gives me a hug I get butterflies. The other week, he and I had a couple of drinks a...

Tips for asking my friend out on a date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys I was wondering if you could help me out... You see I'm at college, there is this girl I met and 4 months onwards we are quite alright friends... I mean I talk to her a few times... we flirt... we're close and stuff and she's really g...

I do not know what to do to prove myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Over the period of 3 years or so I was talking to a guy (lets call him Bob) I met online through a band. We had always wanted to meet but we didn't until this August when he came in from Iraq on leave. While he was here I met his best friend of 13 ...

Will offering him money cloud his judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Will offering him money cloud his judgment? I was getting on really well with a man who liked me (but has a girlfriend) and who was temporarily out of work! Anyway, I really wanted to keep in touch with him so instead of just giving him my nu...

How do I heal the rift and resolve this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am 33, married to a 34-year-old man, we've got a 6-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter. Recently some longtime friends of ours asked our husband to cook for their wedding (my husband is a particularly good cook) and he did. I thought all w...

Should I tell a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (?) - This is a personal question, but it is not relationship based. My name isn't actually Bella Hudson. In my school, there is a list on our wall of students good at science. I am on this list. The thing about my name is that if you add a letter to the ...

I said I see him as a close friend. Does this leave room for being more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - hello. ive been talking to my best lad mates friend alot recently, weve became really close friends, weve just been talkin about my best lad mate i said i saw him as a brother, the mate of his asked what i saw him as. i said close friends, what i ...

My long distance girlfriend hates my in town female best friend, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hello Cupid. I am currently in a long distance relationship. Everything is going well so far and I have no complaints. The one thing that is putting a stress on our relationship is an issue my girlfriend has with a very good friend of mine....

Does "never date your best friends guy" apply to this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I have been friends with my current best friend for 5 years. We are completely inseparable, and have a pretty good relationship. She has had a crush on this guy for about 2 years and a year ago, they hooked up. They never turned into anything li...

I feel like I've been given a label by the person who I have grown to love deeply.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Yesterday my boyfriend said in a heated conversation that he thought I'd been 'ruined'. This has upset me terribly and I'm wondering how I am ever going to get beyond his remark. He won't retract it or apologise. When I asked him if he would choose ...

Is there any way I could gain his friendship back if hes feeling awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - We were good friends in college, we were very comfortable with each other. We used to jokingly talk about making out and stuff. He was in a relationship and broke off a year back. Since then he said he is not ready for a relationship. I do not ...

Don't know what she's thinking...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - I've got this female friend who lives in another city and who I'm starting to get feelings for. We recently agreed I should visit her. She seemed really keen on it, saying how nice it would be to see me, how I should get there, asking when am I ...

Is it morally wrong that part of my attraction to him is the lifestyle he can provide me with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - A few months ago met a man who seems to be very attracted to me.. And I'm considering dating him. The problem is that I have trouble believing that he is really interested in me. He is a partner in an oil trading company, rich, good-looking, and ...

Friendship - Am I overreacting here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - This is not love question, but friendship. I have a new friend that I know now for 8 months. We met at Italian class, and started friendship right away. We have very different personalities. She is very outgoing, very hyper, talkative. I am on the ...

We broke up also because I was needy, now we are building friendship, could this develop into a relationship... again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I rushed into another relationship shortly after ending a 10 year relationship with another man. The new guy had also recently ended a long term relationship and he realised that we had rushed into something that was too much too soon for him so ...

Why is he so angry at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I would really like some advice on this please if you wouldnt mind ! :) I met this lad at a party and we really hit it off. Then spoke through texts and on computer and we was getting along find until I found out he has a girlfriend! But he asked me ...

Why am I getting all these mixed emotions about who should be in jail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so here's my issue: I was raped when I was 9-12 and then when I was 13 (2 different people) The first one is my cousin, and I never pressed charges, and the second is an acquaintance. My problem is, when the second guy got charges pressed on ...

Do I dump him as my best friend still has feelings for him? (He's her ex)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - So recently I began going out with my best friend's ex-boyfriend (lets call him John). They broke up about three weeks ago, and John told me that he liked me and I liked him back, so he asked me to be his girlfriend. Before I said yes, I went to my ...

I find it really hard to form relationships with girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am 17 and have recently moved 6th forms, I find it really hard to form relationships with girls; I had one good female friend at my old school but that was it. I have moved to my boyfriend's school as my best friend moved away, and I can't gather ...

A complicated best friendship. Got myself into quite a pickle here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - I’ve been best friends with a girl for several years now, but recently I moved away to university and have found that she is what I miss most from home. We had always been close from the beginning of our relationship; I had helped her through a ...

Broke up with my boyfriend and now my best friend is seeing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - My ex (we were on/off for almost a year) broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago and he re-asked me out about 1 week ago, I said to wait a week to see how we feel being single and we did, so he asked me again on saturday and we decided to stay single in ...

He gets annoyed because I'm quite shy and don't talk much to his friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend always gets so mad and angry at me when we go out with his friends because I don't talk much. I told him I'm really shy when I first meet people and it takes some time for me to be comfortable with people. He should ...

To call or not to call???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Met a guy back in the summer who was in early stages of divorce. Saw each other for a while, pressure from all angles got to him and contact between us ceased. I emailed him about 6 weeks later and our friendship restarted. Been seeing each other ...

Why is he acting like my boyfriend again when I know he doesn't want to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - My ex came over and we watched tv for an hour and cuddled on the bed. We broke up over a month ago because he had commitment issues but he insisted that we still remain friends. When we were cuddling he told me how much he missed me and he started ...

Will it ever happen for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Ok so, I've never had a boyfriend. I have guys who are friends, personally they are easier to get along with than guys, but i've never actually had a relationship. I can always seem to be friends with guys, but nothing beyond that. I'm about 6 foot ...

Does he do these things because he is interested in me, or what, should I be more aggressive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Is he interested in me? About 3 weeks ago, I went to dinner and Halloween scare with a new group of friends. There is this guy there that I am interested in(we'll call him TT). During the Halloween Scare, he was super accomdating. For examples: (1...

I am not sure he likes me, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - im unsure what to do about this guy i like... He is my same age and i really like him but i cant tell if he is gay. He hasnt had a girlfriend before but he seems straight... But lately he has started being really nice and funny. And he stretches ...

Ladies: Would you wear a ring on your left ring finger if you're single?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - This question is for the ladies. Oh man :)... crushes really are unavoidable aren't they? It's a like a slow motion car crash and it just keeps building every time you see her and there's nothing you can do about it. So she's got what looks l...