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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best friend has been dating this boy for about 6 months, and he has just dumped her. But, he dumped her because he likes me instead. To make it even more complicated, I like him too. I really want to date him but it will hurt my best friend because she still likes him. Even if I waited a few months, she is the kind of girl who would hate you for going out with her ex even after like 2 years. I'm so confused! Should I go out with him? Or should I just let it go and be a good friend? Please Help...
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Let it go. Best friends are forever, boys come and go. Don't throw a best friendship away because this guy is cute or nice or whatever. There's a billion nice, cute guy out there who haven't just broken up with your BFF, find one of those fellas.
You seem like a totally sweet friend and she is lucky to have you. Don't ruin it for a guy!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 November 2008):
Let it go and be a good friend to him.
It would really hurt anyone if their best friend went off with their boyfriend.
I really don't think he would be worth it.
Sad but I'm pretty sure that it's safe to say at your age you aren't throwing away a potential husband.
Good Luck!! xx
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