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writes:I am 17 and have recently moved 6th forms, I find it really hard to form relationships with girls; I had one good female friend at my old school but that was it. I have moved to my boyfriend's school as my best friend moved away, and I can't gather up the courage to hang around with girls. The ones at school are never around, they always go to each others houses in their frees and have all their lessons together; I have lessons mainly with boys, which is fine, but I feel like I need female company and friends that I can spend my time with rather than just hanging round with my boyfriend. I just find it really hard to talk to other girls and get really embarassed because I'm always worried they will judge me because I have had very bad experiences in the past. I normally just make stupid comment or get really nervous and keep saying 'I'm tired' or something stupid. I really need help. Any comments would help me.[Mod note:] It might be helpful if you explain the disparity between your stated ages.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 You are young and are now developing your women skills! Just keep at it and one day you will be very comfortable. It's like learning anything new. At first you have no idea what to do, but little by little you get better at it.
Don't worry. Just try to have fun and relax. Not all girls will want you, but a lot will. The old saying is true, practice makes perfect. Keep practicing! You will do just fine once you have enough experience behind you.
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