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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex (we were on/off for almost a year) broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago and he re-asked me out about 1 week ago, I said to wait a week to see how we feel being single and we did, so he asked me again on saturday and we decided to stay single in the end. little do I know my best friend has a crush on him and he likes her so on TUESDAY (yes, only 3 days later) he asks her out and she says yes and he even asked me what I think. I still have strong feelings for him and I badly miss him.Before he even asked her out he is saying (he has never said anything like this to me before) stuff like 'you are the air I breathe'!Now I'm wondering how long they have been liking each other for because they always seemed to flirt a little even when he and I were going out.I'm very jealous and upset and I cried for about 45 minutes and poured my heart out and I'm constantly upset at school. He and I used to always cuddle and talk during a particular class and I hate seeing them do that. When I see them hugging my stomach turns upside down, does a few backflips and ties itself in a knot and my heart feels like it stopped and I find it hard to breathe sometimes! I HATE seeing them together!The way he used to hold me made me feel so loved and special and perfect the way I am but now I see him holding her EXACTLY the same way and I feel horrible.She is my best friend and I want the best for her, but not him. I'm so happy for her and I told her it was ok if she went out with him but I'm not! So many people have picked up on it. I want her to be so happy but I want him. I want her to have a boyfriend and stuff but I want him to be mine, I know it's selfish but it's how I feel.How can I handle this? Any advice is good.thx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not because he is with someone else, i miss him everytime we arent 'together'. sorry that u guys got the wrong idea but shes not rubbing it in my face. nevermind lol. she read my question and called me and we talked about it and we are cool :) and lately iv been feeling really close to god so thats helping and i feel alot better knowing that she knows:D
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Darling,
You gave him up for a good reason, because it wasnt right between you both.
You are very young and will meet plenty of other Boys, but until then I would ask your friend nicely " I am happy for you both, but would rather you didnt rub it in my face as I still have feelings for him, even though I dont want him back"
Because honey! The only reason you want him is because he is with someone else.
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