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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Is he interested in me?About 3 weeks ago, I went to dinner and Halloween scare with a new group of friends. There is this guy there that I am interested in(we'll call him TT). During the Halloween Scare, he was super accomdating. For examples: (1) we were standing in a line and there was a guy smoking cigarette behind me. He was afraid that the cigarette would burn my jacket, so he put his hand on my back and moved me forward (unexpectedly on my part; (2) When we went to the haunted house, he was always making sure that i don't trip on the stairs or hit my head on something. Basically he was very accomodating and does things that BFs do. (3) when it rained, he took off his jacket and put it over both of our heads. I guess some of these can be things guys to his female friends as well. (4) One time we were talking about something and he smacked my knees. So I thought we had a great connection during the halloween scare. That was Friday night (3 weeks ago). So Monday, 3 days after I met himn, I emailed him to thank him for putting up with my obnxious screams. He wrote me back within 30 minutes and said that i was welcome,etc. But his answers are pretty short and to the point, not really asking me any questions about myself. But he did ask alot of questions in person during the Halloween scare. So for the next 2.5 weeks we exchanged emails, but again, they were very short and quick to the point and his responses weren't really engaging. So I thought maybe he wasnt interested in me. Then, 3 weeks later, we all went to dinner. Everyone was seated at the restaurant already, except for myself, since i arrived about 15 minutes late. Anyway, the restaurant was located in the mall, so I didnt know exactly where it was located. I called one of my friend who was already at the restaurant to ask her where the restaurant was near. She ended up handing him the phone to give me directions. Basically, what my friend told me was that when he heard i was "lost" on the phone, he literally jumped up and grabbed his jacket to go down to the parking lot to meet me. She said that no one in the group suggested that he'd come and get me or anything. He just grabbed his jacket and started heading to the parking lo tto find me. These gestures make me think he likes me, but then he never asks me out nor does he really engage during our emails. Please help.......I really like him and i am getting really stressed out deciphering whether he really likes me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFrom what I know, he seems to be a pretty old fashion guy. So if I ask him to lunch for just the two of us, isn't that like making the first move?
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