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I feel like she's replaced me and I really miss him.

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Question - (19 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ipgloss writes:

hi. so ive got my best friend and hes a boy. were soo close and i love him to bits. hes soo important to me and we're always together. but recently we started getting closer than friends but decided that we would be better off as friends. but now he talks to me and stuff but were not as close as we use to be and theres this other girl who hes became good friends with. i feel as if shes replaced me and i really miss him. what should i do?

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A female reader, littlegurl13012 United States +, writes (19 November 2008):

littlegurl13012 agony auntI agree with miss unique, you should talk to him and let him know that you want to be more than friends. He probably feels bad that you just want to be friends and that hurt him but all I can say is talk to him and let him know how you feel good luck, I wish you the best.

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A female reader, MissUnique United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

MissUnique agony auntTalk to him. Maybe he wanted to be more than friends so when it's been decided to stay as friends, he's either went in a sulk or he's hurt and doesn't want to spend time with you for either the reason he's angry or likes you in a different way you want.

Just talk to him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008):

You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Say you don't begrudge him of having another mate who's a girl, but you don't feel as close as you used to be and that even though he wants to see her he should still find some time for you as well. Explain you don't wanna go out with him because maybe he thinks you do and that's why it's getting more awkward.

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