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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

Am I being paranoid or is this married guy trying to make a move on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Theres this married guy I know, I always catch him looking at me then looking down when I catch him. I always got the impression he would actively try and avoid sitting next to me but he always sat straight across from me so he could see me. But ...

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...

I've had bad luck with women in the past, and now I'm wondering if this new girl is testing me or just playing games

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

25 February 2017 (M) - I would like some advice on what to do with a female I'm currently talking to. Ive had no luck in the past when it comes to relationships and have always ended up getting hurt, no fault of my own. I'm not a bad looking guy and can get dates, I deci...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

I like him but worry about his motives.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - Hi so there's this guy that I've had feelings for for a while. I'm 99% sure he at least likes me a little but for some reason I still have some doubt in my mind, which might just be because I'm not use to guys genuinely wanting to get to know etc. ...

I wondered if he could be flirting because his comment seemed out of place.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone, a business meeting was scheduled with the owner of a company through common friends. So here i was walking into the conference room where he was waiting for me and introducing himself. he was very proper, professional and pleasant ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Should I message her on facebook, or should I just leave it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - I went out on monday night for a student night and I met this really nice girl where we danced. I bought her a drink. She had a friend who was dancing with my friend but he left somewhere and I ended up going to see one of my other friends, but I sa...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

21 February 2017 (M) - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

I like older guys. He was respectful to me. But then his decision to ejaculate on my face bothered me. Were his actions out of line?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm attracted to older men and that's what I normally date. I met this guy recently. He's 34. After exchanging texts for a while, we went out. It went really well. We had great conversation. There was chemistry between us. It was great all around. I ...

I have trust issues. He talked and flirted with a girl. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend and i have been together a little over 5 months. And things are absolutely stinking amazing! The only issue is.. I have a hard time trusting him and dont know what to really do. Towards the beginning of our relationship he ...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - My male friend and I were supposed to just be going out for drinks this Friday night, but he asked me if I wanted to go out for a meal before that too. Do you think it's a date? He hasn't said whether it is or not. I feel nervous about havin...

Is he interested or not? He's confusing me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - So, I work with a foreign guy (a backpacker) and we've worked together for about 3 months. Probably in the past month or so I've taken more of an interest in him and actually find him very attractive and I feel like he flirts with me while we work ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

15 February 2017 (F) - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

It's been impossible to move on from my ex. He's in a relationship now, yet is concurrently sending me texts. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - im in need of advice, I am being confused with random contact from my ex. my ex and I have been on and off for years. Four to five months ago he disappeared to date someone else, broke my heart. i was always the one wanted to get back together an...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 February 2017 (M) - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

I like him, it's been 5 months but there seems to be no initiative from his side

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago who started flirting with me. I did not like him to begin but then we got talking and I saw a really handsome interesting person. The flirting continued and I cold feel some chemistry between us, A few weeks later ...

Should I go with him and be miserable or stay at home and get anxious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my Current bf for a year, he never told me he loves me though I told him twice. He mentioned that he is not comfortable saying it, since it feels like forced for him. So we do not talk about love anymore. We live 45 minu...

How can I get my crush to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

12 February 2017 (F) - There's a guy I'm interested in but I just can't seem to get him to notice me. I try to talking to him, flirting, touching, writing him some steamy notes, but he just won't respond. I asked him to our school Valentine's day dance and he turned me ...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

He says his On line friend is just fun and escapism. It sounds like emotional cheating to me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - Would love advice as to if " emotional cheating " on line is as bad as the physical cheating . I have dated my guy for two years and walked in on him skyping a woman who he knows through " business " when he was saying " love talking to you ,...

I'm torn between two guys. I'm wondering, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - Hello anyone out there willing to give me advice. I seem to have gotten myself into a significant amount of a problem. I'm torn between two guys. One my High school sweetheart Man1 whom I went out with for around 4 and a half years. We'd always a...

My GCSE soon. Feel I am running out of time to ask her out. but I'm hesitant and shy about it. what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 February 2017 (M) - After asking multiple questions on this site I can now confirm that a girl I know well has a crush on me (she keeps staring) and I like her back. It's almost like a magnet; almost as if we are fated to be with each other. Whenever she stares at me...

Do you think he actually likes me, in the same way that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - I really am crushing on this boy at my uni. It has been going on for quite some time but I don’t see him very often – maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes I don’t see him for a few months. We have very different classes and schedules. We ha...

My husband and I had a threesome with a guy. Should I push the issue or let it go on naturally?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

7 February 2017 (?) - Recently I found porn on my husbands phone and confronted him. He confessed that he was turned on by the fact that he wanted me to do a three-some. Well yesterday he brought a male friend home and after several drinks I found myself going down o...

Is it likely that we will get in trouble for being together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, we go to the same highschool and we were not looking for love when we found it. In my state I know that the age of consent is 16, but he will turn 18 before I turn 16. We are both concerned that we will get in t...

Help me sort out this tangle before it gets worse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I'm in quite a difficult situation. My ex boyfriend was living on the streets recently. The battery on his phone had run out one night. He met this guy who was also living on the streets, and he borrowed the guy's mobile phone to speak to me. Me and ...

18 year old senior at school. How could I attempt to seduce this teacher at my school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I am a 18 year old female in high school as a senior. I had this teacher for the first semester and over time just seemed to really like him for a lot of reasons mostly because of how intelligent he is. I am not a very sexual person and could...

I'm not sure if she's into me romantically, or just friendly. How do I behave when we meet? What things do I mention? Don't want to scare her away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - I'm a freshman in college. I enrolled into an English class last minute, I was assigned an older professor, mid thirties. I get to the class and it's a young woman about 24 years old, the professor. I was supposed have dropped out. The minute I saw...

What if the tables were turned? Am I being a numpty for agreeing to her terms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M) - Hey just like to ask if i've been a bit of a numpty. I'm not allowed a facebook nor messenger not sure why but to make her happy i said ill not make a facebook. She has both and lots of people added like people she works with and even people she s...