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writes: Recently I found porn on my husbands phone and confronted him.He confessed that he was turned on by the fact that he wanted me to do a three-some. Well yesterday he brought a male friend home and after several drinks I found myself going down on both men.Yes I was nervous about it but enjoyed having two men.Thing is should I push the issue or let it go on naturally? Ps its sexual not emotional
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks it better than it has been, we got our sex life back
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate it turns out that my husband and I had a three sum with another man . We went all the way ( intercourse) and I noticed that my husband was turned on an actually seemed to preform better
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2017): I think I know where you're coming from with the question. If you should make any mention of it, or if you should just leave it alone? If it was spontaneous and just a onetime deal, no need to press it. it was a pleasurable experience, so leave it at that.
If this sits well on your mind, and doesn't clash with your sense of values; just let it ride.
If it bugs you and you feel the need to let your husband know your inner-feelings or it's nagging at you. Express yourself. It's your mouth and your body.
Not to ruin the vibe, but he's putting you at risk for an STD, and you are the one performing on two men. He had better beware bringing someone in, who might spark an emotional response. It could happen. There's always a caveat in these alternative situations.
You may want to set some ground-rules about frequency, and you may want to process this a little before doing it again.
You did confront him about porn; which means you must have some reservations. If you feel the least doubt, don't do it.
As men go, if given the green-light on one fantasy; the sky becomes the limit. Make sure you are careful, use safe-sex, and don't allow your husband to pimp you out without your consent. This could very well take a wrong turn for your marriage if not properly managed and kept discreet.
If it does happen again, make sure there are no cameras or phones capturing anything on video.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2017): Hmmm.
Your husband can't love you much.
To watch your wife suck some other guy's cock?
No love at all.
I just don't get some people.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (7 February 2017):
 Although it sounds a bit out of mainstream whatever happens in the privacy of your own home shouldn't be anyone's business BUT don't forget the dangers involved (Aids , etc).
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reader, Billy Bathgate  +, writes (7 February 2017):
If you enjoyed it what is the problem. If you feel you need to talk about it or you want to do it again sit your husband down and have a frank discussion with him. It seems to me that after you've blown another guy in front of your husband at his urging talking about it should be easy heck even advisable.
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reader, Phil052  +, writes (7 February 2017):
 It sounds like you both enjoyed this happening, so it's your choice! There is a whole world out there of people who enjoy this lifestyle so you are not alone. It's important that it is purely sex for fun rather than any emotional involvement, but as long as you are both happy exploring this way of life then I don't see a problem.
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