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Faded love: Help and advice

Our conversations always end up in fights?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4192 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now, and lately I feel like every time we talk, it ends up with us getting angry at each other. I know, I am responsible for some of it but he just acts so frustrating sometimes. For e...

Should I try to work things out and see if my feelings come back for him or should I just cut all ties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I need some advice as i'm still a year and a half later struggling to move on from my ex, i don't know whether this means i should be with him still or not. So me and my ex have been on and off for 11 years now i love him and think about him ...

I feel like I'm stuck with my BF of 3 years. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my BF for 3 years now. Looking back, I feel like he was a rebound for me because my first love had completely betrayed me. Of course, I wasn't aware of it at the time. A year into our relationship he moved countries to be ...

What can I say? Now the way she talks, it's like she thinks we are together again, but I'm over her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - Hi cupid I am ashamed of myself. Last night, I ended up sleeping with my ex. She called me crying a lot as her brother was hit by a car in Australia. I helped her over the phone and she was crying so much that I went to her place. After she cal...

What advice can I give my friend whose long distance boyfriend seems aloof?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hi there, It's been a long time since I was here. You all were great help. So now I'm back with a question for my friend. My friends have been in a relationship for 5 years. Mostly they are in Long Distance Relationship, since the boy went to st...

My long distance girlfriend has been avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - Actually my girlfriend has started behaving strangely from past few days.. we are in a long distance relationship and now we are going to complete our 2 months. so here my problem goes.. we have met just 2-3 times then we came in a relationship o...

Living with an abusive partner but we are not together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I was in a relationship for ~8years. In JULY 2012 HE kicked me out of his house. Then wen me and my son had no place to live he paid for my ticket back to live at his house and raise our son. We r not together anymore. During those past years he ...

Why does my ex want nothing to do with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - My ex broke up with me 7 months ago and has maintained no contact since then. I have always loved him and a part of me still does, and I accept that he does not want to be with me anymore, but why doesn't he at least want to be friends with me? I...

Is it stress that's causing this inkling that something has changed in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Hi all, I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and recently when we've been away from each other I keep having this tiny inkling that something's changed. However, when we're together that all goes and I want to hold her, kiss her etc and...

My boyfriend has been taking me for granted since we got back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy from past 6 years. we broke up for a year but got back together again. We both love each other a lot but from the past 6 months he has been taking me very casually. He cuts the call in between when ever he ...

He keeps promising to marry me but seven years later...nothing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hi all. I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years an we've even bought a house together cause we were both tired of him renting small places. My problem is he forever promises to marry me an when the time comes he become agressive. On the past 4 months I...

My boyfriend's lack of ambition is taking a toll on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend says he's lost his lust for life. And I can see a serious lack of motivation and drive but because Ive only been in the picture for two years I dont know for sure if this is a recent thing or if he has always been this way. He is a ...

I'm having a difficult time getting over an abusive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me a week ago. I'm still trying to move on even though for the last 6 months he was very abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards me, called me whore and slut while dumping me thru phone. I know I didn't de...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

I've become more possessive with partner who seems happy around everyone but me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - My mind is completely shattered as I write this question.I fell in love with a guy who waited 3 years for me. It has been almost an year since we got committed. Of course there have been problems but we were never tired of each other. But now, it is ...

He "wants to bang other girls"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year at the end of this month. He went on a "rugby tour" with alot of his rugby friends about a week ago, and since then a lot of his people have been saying to me "I just want to bang other girls" now until ...

LDR boyfriend has no time for me but always has time for his games and his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together in a long distance relationship for a year. My boyfriend is a gamer, he spends most of his time with his friends playing video games all day long. I always feel ignored, i always feel like he'd rather spend ...

Having second thoughts about my current boyfriend of 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Im going to try and make this short...I was married for 12years to a very controlling and emotionally abusive man. The guy I am with now is 13years my junior. He is mature in some ways but others not so much (financially and education wise) Anyway w...

I am really mad at how he ended our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Just realized that my boyfriend dumped me over Facebook! How immature and obnoxious is that? We are talking about a 28 year old guy here! We were on a break, and as everyone, I expected him to contact me in order to know if we would stay toget...

He has changed, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is becoming very abusive lately, he is abusive only with me, with his friends and others he behaves very sweetly. He hasnt said a single nice thing to me in past few months. I tried not to evoke his anger in anyway,...

I love him but he's attention seeking. I want him, but feel trapped!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - Dear all. I would appreciate your views please. I.ve been seeing a man for just over two years. It has been difficult,and volitile. I really love him,but have had to back off,and am seeing him alot less to avoid getting hurt,and trying to slowly ...

Which one do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - I am having to choose between two men and its killing me inside, i was with one for a year, we got engaged after a week, we have both had a lot happen, his mum died, then my dad but before his mum died i found out he had been texting his ex over a ...

He stopped texting me after we've been seeing each other nonstop for the past 2 months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - This guy I've been seriously dating for the past 2 months suddenly stopped responding to my texts. Before I start ranting about my situation, let me preface this with his history of relationships. He just recently got out of a long term ...

My boyfriend won't finish in the bedroom, has performance anxiety and I don't know how to fix this situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - My bf of 3 years (he is 43 and I am 32) who I have a 1 and a half year old son with has performance anxiety in the bedroom and won't ever finish making love when we do get it on as he is scared to make me pregnant again - I reassured him that I have ...

I dumped the good guy for the bad guy, now I want the good guy back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

5 May 2013 (M) - Hello, what am writing about is, I was seeing some one about a year ago, he was a prince charming kinda guy, treated me great, about 3 months, my ex was in jail, the one who phy. abuse me, beat me, choke me, just a bad guy, but I was in love with ...

We've been together for three years but now it seems we have gone back to stage one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend three years. He has been in the uk fir 7 years and revently applied for uk residency which he has now obtained. He has supported me through a serious illness and has helped me with my two kids when i need help. He l...

My fiancé 'needs space'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - I am having a major panic. Im engaged (was) to be married this December. Two weeks ago my fiance had an arguement that escalated and we pretty much havnt spoken. Now at the best of times he can be insecure and Im getting all the blame here as I ...

Did my ex love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - Hi i was just wondering did my ex really love me he would correct everything i said everything i done even stupid things like cleaning my teeth how i tidy up how i hoovered yet he could be so loving he would also call me names quite often and tried ...

When I show some weakness like depending him for emotional support or ask him for his help, he pulls back and is disinterested in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4219 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 3.5 years talks to me nicely when i pull back i.e doesn't show any interest whatsoever in him, but if when i show some weakness like depending him for emotional support or ask him for his help, he pulls back and is disintere...

Why has my boyfriend stopped expressing his feelings towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - Hey guys, I am 23 years old, and my boyfriend is 22, we have been together for almost 2 years. I have been noticing that he isn't expressing his feelings as well as he used to. Our second anniversary is coming up, and I don't even feel like h...