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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

My partner of 3 years is no longer is interested in sex and I discover he's watching porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - hi all, i have been with my partner for 3 years we used to have sex regularly, now its once a week if i'm lucky, but i have looked through his phone and our computer and found he has been watching porn. i am a little hacked off at this because he g...

Is he in love with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I need some advice badly. My boyfriend was very sexualy active with me when we got together, we held hand, hugged all the time, kissed all the time. all the things that lovers do, in the begining, but There a side to this, when we got together I was ...

I'm wondering if he will ever forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to ...

Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority ...

I like another guy but I'm engaged, do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I've been in a relationship for over 5 years but it has been a rocky one most of the way. The first two years were good, we moved in together, he was good with my son and our relationship just seemed easy. There was little fighting or conflict. ...

Should I stop talking to her or get her to understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Met this girl online a few months ago. should I stop talking to her for real or get her to understand? When we first started talking she was always interested in talking and kinda liked me for some reason Idk. When I would have problems thin...

Should I stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Lately I’ve been thru a hard time with my husband (we’re not officially married, but living together for 3 years), we’re both 32 yo, we have a son together of 2 years old. We’re from different countries and currently living in South-...

My girlfriend left me in a bad state

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific...

He can't move on after our one night stand. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello there, I wanted to ask help to solve this problem that i have. 4 years ago im working in a department store when i met this guy. At our first meeting he ask for my number. And because of my co-workers that are teasing me i don't have any ...

Is there such a thing as real love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Is there such a thing as real love? Or do guys just want the best girl they can convince to be with them at the time? Looking at the fwb scenario, or even guys who take a girlfriend out of convenience because she is nice to him, but who has no ...

I come home from my job and find my unemployed, porn-addicted but asexual to me, husband has done nothing but be on the computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - i am married for nearly 20 years with 3 teenagers. my husband and i have grown apart. i am the breadwinner of the family as my husband is too lazy to work and refuses to help me around the house. although we have not had sex for 9 years due to his ...

I need to stop wasting time. Please send words of advice on my situation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

18 May 2012 (F) - I have not been happy in my long term relationship for a while. He is the father to my youngest child. I am very independent with my own properties and I have quite a glamorous job with an airline. He does not take me any where, never met his fa...

Why don't I feel what I should be feeling for my lovely boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, okay so just going to jump straight in to this... Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and he is genuinely the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful person I have ever met, he treats me better than anybody ever has...

I thought everything was going okay but he got distant and today he broke up with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

15 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I know there are a million breakup questions already posted but I'm feeling so down in the dumps. My boyfriend and I of over 2 years broke up today. He's in the Marine corps and is stationed across the country. I thought things w...

Should I stick it out a little longer or just cut him loose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

14 May 2012 (F) - I'm out with a guy for 7 months. In the beginning he would asked me out frequently and soon the outing would stop at about 3 months. I know he's doing that to get to know me first, get comfortable with me and when he reach that comfort zone, he ...

My boyfriend has enough money to drink but never to do anything fun with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (F) - Right sooo, i want to make sure i get this across the right way, because before i start i need to say, i love my boyfriend with all my heart, he sensitive , he compliments me, he makes me feel loved ( most of the time) he is my best friend and i ...

Can I have other view points please on what to do? My wife is disrespectful and takes me for granted

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 May 2012 (M) - I married my wife when we were 20. I fell head over heals with her - nothing in the universe mattered. I was in the Marine Corps at the time and we never had money given the terrible pay. I was discharged in '90 and started my civilian career in I...

He's a great guy. But I don't want a relationship now. How to handle my confusion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 May 2012 (F) - He is truly amazing, he is everything I every wanted in a man, except for a few things, one is his and my children don't get along very well so every other weekend is super stressful for me. Finances are super tight so he can't contibute as much as I...

Why do I wonder what is on the other side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - I am nor sure what is wrong with me. I am in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 ywars now. We are long distance, but we spend considerable part of the year together (we lived the last 5 months together), and talk constantly. I truly love him. ...

I develop feelings early then grow cold. I can't hold down a relationship, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - Hi thanks for reading! My problem is that i cannot hold down a relationship and dont know whats wrong with me. I am 36 and a single mother of 2 lovely kids. I split with their dad 4 years ago after a really unpleasant relationship where he constant...

My problem is right now that there is no spark left in our relationship and I'm not sure if we should be together anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years next month. My problem is right now that there is no spark left in our relationship and I'm not sure if we should be together anymore. Even though I want things to keep working between us I don't ...

My friend wants to leave his controlling wife but now she is pregnant

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - My best friend marriage is a disaster, he always loved another women but still married his current wife. She know about his feelings and was sure that he will get over it. But last year it was very hard so he was going to break up with her and get ...

Connection with fiance is lost and now I've slept with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - hi everyone this gets really complicated! a previous question i asked helps to explain the background of our relationship. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/amnesia-stole-four-years-of-my-life-and.html i am supposed to be getting married t...

It hurts that the man who would drop anything for me only to give me a lift, will no longer drop anything for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - 2 years ago i met a wonderful man in town but was still in love with my ex who had dumped me a month before. We started seeing each other even though i wasn't ready but he said he'd give me all the time i need. he would do anything for me - pick me ...

Help me deal with my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

8 May 2012 (?) - Hi unts and uncles I have 3 questions. [Mod note: 2 questions were combined here] 1..my husbands likes oral sex the most. Every time we meet he pull it out and ask to rub and grab the ass..pull the ass and a hand job.he also likes to rub his testi...

How can my ex marry her so very very soon after meeting her? It hurts.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - How can my ex marry someone 2 months after meeting her? Even though he has been driving by my house and calling me often with a private number? I called him about three weeks ago to ask him why he was doing these things and a girl answered...

Sex is dull. How can we improve our sex life?

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4 May 2012 (F) - sex with my LT bf is now dull and boring and I don't feel the same rapid heart rate and adrenaline as I used to. I love him dearly and don't want this to ruin an otherwise perfect relationship. I suffered from a lot of pain during sex a while back ...

He slept with other girls 2 days after we decided to have a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 May 2012 (F) - Me and my ex had dated for nearly two years. The first year of the relationship was amazing. The second half didn't go well. His life was not full of fun and crazy things anymore. We lived together and he said he didn't had enough freedom to do ...

Why am I feeling so negative about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

1 May 2012 (F) - hi everyone.i've been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now.we love each other and plan to get married once we both are settled in our careers and are of marriageable age.we both have had pasts..and he wasn't really "in love" before me, he ...

How can a person love another for so many years without changing or cheating or wanting something else?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

1 May 2012 (F) - It is a long post, I hope you could be patient about me... any opinion would be appreciated!!! Recently I just got out of a horrible relationship of 3 years, I actually feel relieved and alive, although I feel unhappy for having to say goodbye t...