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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Would you consider this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to have that feeling of distance between us for a few months now. For me- it seems as though he is just comfortable and doesn't feel like he has to try anymore. I believe the two most important things in a relationship are ...

Separated, not divorced. Another guy in the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I left my husband 5 years ago but we've never gotten divorced. He doesn't want to and I'm in no hurry. I became involved with another man and we've been living together for 4 of those years. I love him but I don't know about our future. He doesn't ...

Secret vasectomy, how do I forgive and move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married 13 years. We have an 8 yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son. In 2002 when my daughter was 4 months old, my husband made the decision to have a vasectomy without talking to me about it. I found out because he put ...

When will enough be enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Hi I hope i dont come accross as some sad case here. But im really struggling. I need to know how to move on from an ex, this has been going on for near enough 3.5 years now. I love him with all my heart and i do ...

Ex contacts me after months. What could she want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - Hello all My ex split from me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. Since then I have not contacted her at all to try and heal. In that time it was her birthday and i still stayed strong and didn't contact her to say happy birthday Toda...

My abusive boyfriend is attempting to emotionally blackmail me into staying with him. Should I believe it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of two years has physically, emotionally, and mentally abused me for two years. I finally found the strength to try and leave him and he is throwing countless excuses in my face that make me reconsider... he was extremely depres...

After our troublesome trip to Mexico I think our relationship might be over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I got back from a 5 day trip to Mexico with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. I have barely seen or spoken to him. We left after only being officially together for 5 months. The trip was not too much fun. He was pulling away before the trip which I wasn't ...

Will wishing an ex happy birthday seem clingy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Ok, so I was wanting to know if I should wish an ex a happy birthday if he broke up with me because I was too "clingy?" His birthday is 3 weeks away...will it seem like I want him back if I do? Also, he said that ...

I feel like a fool because I keep trying to make this work and when I do she doesn't try at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, In summer of 2009 i met the girl i believed would be my future wife.i had just gotten out of a 1 year long distance relationship and for some reason when i met this girl, all of the remaining feelings for my ex had vanished. Conver...

I miss sex and emotional support from my husband, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - hello, im 27 and have been married for 1 yr now .. i ve known my husband for 6 yrs before we got married .. since 6 months he hardly wants to have sex with me ... he usually complains of being too tired .. but when i check his browsing history ...

I have no idea what to do about my troubled relationship without anyone getting hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I don't know if I should break up. It's been a year and a half now and until last October, I could see myself marrying "A" and having kids with him. We both wanted it. I still do want it but its definitely not possible the way things are right...

Is there any reason why I shouldn't bail on our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I'M trying to save our marriage at the last 10 years,it is 25 year long now... Well, there is no luck. After years of counseling,self -improvement on my part... He did not change a bit. Now, he is sexually unavailable,not just emotionally.. Long ...

Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...

Lately it feels like we are drifting apart and I have no idea what is going on with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together so long that I really can't imagine life without him. He feels the same way and we've somehow managed to stay together going to two separate colleges for the last two years. Lately, though, it seems like we're ...

Not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I am a 23 year old male who is a collegiate athlete and never had any kind of mental or physical problems in my life. No trying to boast but I am not an ugly looking guy and my gf who i have been dating for 8 months exclusively and been with for ...

I have no love for him anymore, but I feel reluctant to ask him for divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for almost 5 years. We both have two kinds, 2 year and half (twins). I am very frustrated about my marital relationship because day by day, I found myself and my husband becomes far away and away from each other despite we sleep ...

I'm not sure if I can call this a relationship anymore....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend. we live together though I'm not sure I can call it a relationship anymore. There is no physical contact whatsoever yet she still wants me to buy a place and for us to move to. She cries sometimes about getting older an...

Is he pulling away because of the grief/stress in his life...or has he lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Is it grief, or lack of interest? My bf recently lost of a loved a while ago and has been having a very difficult past few months. I have been by his side trying to be supportive and helpful. We live together. The past few months have been ...

Feeling Neglected: Should I confront him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend LDR use to enjoy to each other's company. School started and well we both got busy which I knew was bound to happen. Last week, we got into a huge fight because he has a tendency to hide his problems from me or anyone. He has been ...

How can I get over this feeling of needing to be with my unaffectionate boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hey everyone i finaly took everyones advice including you guys on leaving my unaffectionate boyfriend that never pays me any attention...... I cant stop thinking about him and i dont really want to leave him but he acts like he doesnt care about me ...

Why am I acting like I am single and looking for a man when I have a boyfriend? Is it wrong that I am still with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1 I'm a mother of a 4 month old girl, and am still with her father but only as bf/gf. Well he wants to get married, but I don't. He's madly in love with me, I'm...

I feel like I am only staying with my partner because he is my best friend, how can I explain this to him without being too awful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5426 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my wonderful partner for near on 8 years now. As much as I love spending time with him, I don't think it is in the same way as it once was. What we have feels much more platonic than romantic to me, and not just in the 'we're ...

All we do is sit in and watch tv... How can I make this relationship more interesting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and i love him dearly but i am feeling really bored in the relationship. I am a very outgoing, independant and love to party. I am currently at university and he has been in the same low paid job for ...

Am I a fool for leaving her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 February 2010 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for around five years, although for much of that time I stupidly just considered us friends, even though we were often living together and always sleeping together. During the five years I left her a total of three times, ...

How do we get the spark back in the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - i have been dating the same girl for about six years now and we have lost the spark. I need help on gitting the spark back and for us to fall in love again....

What can I say to get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I am dating a guy but he is one year junior than me that actually doesnt matter to me but the thing is that I no longer wanna date with him. Seriously I am fed up being in love with him. I have already betrayed him once but now I am not getting ...

Why don't I feel the same love and desire for my boyfriend, and how do I get back to where it was before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been very happy, i love spending time with him and he always makes me feel better. He is so nice and he is really the only guy who would really understand and put up with me. He is ...

Two weeks after I found out I was pregnant, he started acting like all the women want him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5431 days ago

6 February 2010 (F) - Im carrying my boyfriends baby, 2 weeks after I found out I was pregnant he started acting like he is the hottest thing alive and that all the women wanted him, and his drinking increased and he wanted me to drive him around, I discussed this with ...

It feels like there's something in between us, that I can't get close to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5433 days ago

5 February 2010 (F) - hi, i live at uni in the same house as my boyfriend, we have been together for four months. just recently i have been feeling really down and have been told by a counciler that it is depression, but im not sure why but when i am with my bf it comes ...

It's all going down hill - talking, sex, time together

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5 February 2010 (F) - okay here the who thing its all started about 5 months ago everything was good ,hot and heavy untill then . then i started to notice things like we don't talk unless its really important . hes up all night and sleeps all day . im up all day and ...

I don't know if I love my husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I dont know if i still love my boyfriend cause everyday we argue and am 23 and his 37 we have 3 kids together and one thats not his which is the oldes. I mean he has nowhere to stay if i tell him to leave my house.but he screams and is always in a ...

Why would he come see me if he said it wasn't real and he didn't have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - hi i have a problem that i could really do help with, a few yrs ago i got talkin to my now partener online, we got on really well and we live 6hours away from eachother we started to fall for eachother back then, but i got back with an ex of mine ...

How do I cope with cold feet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Having second thoughts about getting married a 2nd time. Been together 5 yrs. We're both late 40's. Have lots in common, good sex life; but b/f is high-strung at times, which wears me out. I know no one is perfect, least of all me, but feeling ...