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anonymous
writes: I dont know if i still love my boyfriend cause everyday we argue and am 23 and his 37 we have 3 kids together and one thats not his which is the oldes. I mean he has nowhere to stay if i tell him to leave my house.but he screams and is always in a bad mood and i feel like am not happy with him i mean i dont think he's cute but his sometimes nice to me. What should i do?we been together 6 years Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (4 February 2010):
You already have three children to take care of, you dont need your boyfriend acting like a fourth.
If he is screaming and in a bad mood your kids will grow up thinking tha is how fathers are supposed to act, and when they grow up the boys will be just like him and the girls will look for partner just like him.
Do your kids a favour and show them that women are strong and capable and dont need to be treated badly. Tell him its either shape up or ship out. And if he doesnt grow up, follow through on your threat to have him removed.
Good luck
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