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writes:hi, i live at uni in the same house as my boyfriend, we have been together for four months. just recently i have been feeling really down and have been told by a counciler that it is depression, but im not sure why but when i am with my bf it comes on worse. I have told him about it and he does care when i talk about it, but i think he must forget the rest of the time. my relationship with him is strong, hes really loving verbally; he tells me he loves me all the time and is constantly telling me how beautiful i am and things like that. Just lately he has been given loads of oppertunities at uni which is great. however i feel that its starting to pull him away from me. because we live in the same house we made away so that we still had our own space to do our own thing, but in the evenings we would spend time together. however now the time we do spend with each other, it feels rushed or that he doesn't really want to be there. it feels as if the spark has gone a little bit. it also feels like there is somthing in between us, its like i can never get close to him, even when we are close. and even if we spent all day together, i walk away feeling like we hadn't.am i just being petty and selfish? or is there something wrong? should i talk to him about it? i want to be a supporting girlfriend, but i can feel myself growing bitter towards him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 February 2010):
This I think is to do with your depression as well. Perhaps you are feeling low and worry that his uni opportunities are becoming more important to him than you (a form of jealousy)? Perhaps he isn't supporting you enough? Yes, do talk to to him about it. You must, as it's the only way to make sure he knows how you feel.
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