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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I may have lost the love of my life and perfect girl to commitment phobia! Now that I want her back, she's completely blanked me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

31 October 2016 (M) - I think Ive ruined things with the love of my life Ive been with my girl 8 years since school she's absolutely stunning that's why I fancied her initially I just wanted to have sex with her but we were 16 she ended up making me wait 8 months a...

I've always felt like my B/f fancied me but now I feel from his choice in porn that he fancied his ex more!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has unknowingly dented my self esteem recently, although he's hurt my feelings he hasn't done it on purpose. I'm not sure telling him would be a good idea. I can't stand arguing! I've started watching porn with him, I've never had a...

Boyfriend's parents disapprove but mine don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I just moved to America a few months ago and soon after met a boy I really really like. We started dating and just recently hit the 6 month mark. The problem is his parents. His parents a originally from Korea and are very traditional. Since he...

My boyfriend's wife says he is lying about getting a divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - Hi, I am with a guy who is separated from his wife 5 years ago. He came to America as a refugee 3 years ago and she is overseas with their son. All his family and relatives knows about me and the fact that they are separated and he is waiting for ...

Girlfriend of 4 years cheated, I forgave and she's still cheating! I'm afraid to leave home anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

30 October 2016 (M) - Hey guys, Im new to this kind of thing however i don't know where else to turn to for this so figured it's time to ask here. so right to it... Me and my gf have been together for over 4 years now... we've had our ups and downs like anyone el...

I think I made a mistake moving away and buying a house with my b/f. I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - I am 42, and currently in a bad situation with my bf of 6 and 1/2 yrs. I moved 80 miles away from family friends etc to be with him. We bought a house last oct'. However things have got so bad already. He is very strict and sometimes ruthless with ...

I want to dump him but don't want to hurt him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - I go out with this boy and he loves me so much and I don't want to hurt him, but I don't love him as much. I want to dump him but I'm afraid that he will hate me and possibly regret ever going out with me. Any advice?...

I'm on vacation with girlfriend but found out she wants to break up with me. What do I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

30 October 2016 (M) - Ok so I'm on holiday in Tenerife with my girlfriend of 4 months and I have just found out she wants to end it with me either during or after the holiday. I've read messages between her and her mum who is encouraging her to "get shot as I'm not good ...

Can anyone deceipher what her actions mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

30 October 2016 (M) - i was looking down and doing my work and then when I looked up I saw the girl i liked looking at me and smiling then she looked down at my chest while still smiling then she looked up at my face while still smiling so I just looked away..then ...

Can't shake feeling that ex will come back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - My ex and I had a LDR for 1 month shy of 2 years. During the relationship there were many fights, and we'd often break up and reconcile constantly - sometimes multiple times a month. I'm very aware that a bulk of our problems came from me lying to ...

I gave him my number, he hasn't called and I can't call him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

29 October 2016 (F) - I met a boy when we were both on holiday and I gave him my number. We were in a place with no mobile signal and no wifi so he promised to text/call me when he got home. I know that he got home 5 days ago and he still hasn't got in contact with me. I ...

How do I become dominant for this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

29 October 2016 (M) - I am mid twenties and I have always shied away from topping due to problems with premature ejaculation. I have also never really felt truly comfortable with sex because I used to be very overweight and have never felt sexy. So mostly I bottom and ...

I've never dated and have started wondering what's the point?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

29 October 2016 (M) - A bit of background info. I'm a 25 year old guy whose never been on a date or with a girl at all. For as long as long as I can remember i've severely lacked the confidence in myself to approach a girl i like let alone ask her out and the few times I ...

I'm dating my friend's ex wife and don't know how to tell him but if I don't she will!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

29 October 2016 (M) - Greg [age:40] was my [age:27] roommate for 5 months and we have been friends ever since. He would tell me about how he was madly in love with his wife Crystal [Age:30], but they fought too much, that's why they were trying separation for a couple...

I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...

Girls seem to show interest in me, but why don't they want to date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

28 October 2016 (M) - So I meet this girl at work and we started talking and I was surprised at how easy and effortless it was to talk to her. We seemed to share many same hobbies and stuff. She seemed to like me and was single at the time, anyways while we were talking ...

Why am I afraid of loving him? He's serious about me and the chemistry is intense

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Why am I afraid of loving him? I met him a year and 5 months ago at a salon were he did my hair I remember we had such a great conversion as he was busy with my hair, after that he asked to call me and he took my number from the register, ever since ...

Guy in my class possibly likes me or no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - So this guy sits next to me in my class. He's playful with me when we text and talk in class and everything, but the only times he will INITIATE contact is when it's something to do with our class/an assignment. We have met up before to work on ...

I broke up with my ex, like a new girl but don't know if I should date her because it would ruin any future my ex and I might have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

28 October 2016 (M) - I'm 18 and in my first year at uni. Me and my long term (1 year and 3 months) girlfriend moved to different areas of the country for uni (about 1hour 30mins by car apart) and due to a number of reasons (including distance, lack of time for each ...

I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend's parenting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I have been dating a man with a 13 year old daughter for 5 months and feel ready to meet her. I thought I was anyway. He is still drying her after a shower on her back and her legs. She is going through puberty and has all the maturing parts of a ...

Should I try dating her again? She's a good friend but she's played me in the past

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - I am unsure what to choose. I have know a girl for over 4 years. In the first year I met her, I knew she was seeing guys (mostly footballers), and basically having fun. I bided my time to wait until she stopped seeing guys and wanted something...

Trust ring--what should I have engraved on it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend, and I made many mistakes. I'm getting him a promise ring and I want it to make up for all of that, to show him he can trust me and I won't ever make the same mistakes again. What should be engraved on the ring? ...

Does anyone have any experience of feeling "numb" after a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - About 2 weeks ago my boyfriend dumped me. We had been together one year and friends for 3. Everything was great in our relationship, we had lots in common and planned to spend the rest of our lives with each other. 2 weeks before we broke up we st...

Can you ruin chances with Mr. Right due to dating inexperience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I guess you can say that I am not a dating expert at all, so I've had my fair share of unsuccessful dates. I'm in my early 20s and started dating around 19. I recently picked up a few books on dating and read all the tips and do's/don't of dating. ...

I'd like to get to know this girl better but I'm unsure how to do this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - I'm a guy, sophomore in high school, and took this girl to the homecoming dance. I asked her the night before just kind of randomly but she agreed to go so we went out to dinner and had fun at the dance. We spent the whole time there together and we ...

How do you get over someone who is sexually gratifying and stunning?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I was dating a guy but know now he's not right for me. I ended it with him. He's dating other women, not exclusive though. I liked him and he was the first guy I had sex multiple times with. However, I just know deep down he's not for me because ...

Sleepless night. I cannot fall asleep next to my BF. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - I cannot fall asleep next to my boyfriend. I don't think it's a question of habit because we've been together for a year and stay over at each other's places regularly. And usually he falls asleep in five seconds, whilst I suffer through the nigh...

His family don't think my family are good enough. Should I hope that he will accept me? I fear this relationship could leave me brokem hearted

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - Hey everyone! I'm a total mess right now and in a desperate attempt to seek advise I'm here. I was in a very serious relationship with a man for a year and half.I met his family,we were thinking of marriage planning kids and then all of a sudden ...

Boyfriend made hurtful comment about my weight, sex isn't good.How do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - I need a bit of guidance. I want to start by saying I'm absolutely in love with my boyfriend of almost three years. He's also been my best friend long before we ever dated. It's like a fairytale right? Not exactly. Our sex life is horrible. It...

BF got caught basically cheating, he hasn't reached out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We have had trust issues because he got a girls number on a trip, and texted her flirting throughout and I found out about it. He said he made a dumb mistake and blah blah blah if I found out about ...

My older boyfriend doesn't put forth the effort and tells me I should find someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - Hi all, im in a relationship with a guy for 9 months now. He's 55 years old im 28 years old And he's never suggested taking me out anywhere. He has been married twice. His second wife had her own house he moved in before he got married to her, they ...

How do you truly know if you love someone? What does Mr. Right look like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

24 October 2016 (F) - Hello agony aunt(s), I find myself in a situation that I would rather not be in, but none the less, am. As a woman who didnt get serious with men or have boyfriends until I turned 23, I find myself teasing out what I like and dont like. I am ...

Do I keep things to myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

24 October 2016 (F) - First off thanks to anyone who takes the time to answer this for me!and sorry for the lengh. Some background: I have been with my boyfriend 7 years my best friend (female) started dating his best friend (male) 2 years later. I'm close with both ...

We are room mates that want to date but her ex is our room mate too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

24 October 2016 (M) - Hello, just looking for some advice at to what to do as I'm currently in an awkward situation... I'm a university student in my final year and currently living with a girl who I really like. We feel the same and have spoken about it before, the only ...

I want to date him but I'm almost 18 and he's 9 years older

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

24 October 2016 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old female (18 in November) from the UK. I have a male "friend" who I want to date but he's 9 years and five months older than me, he knows I like him and feels the same way. He feels guilty about his feelings for me and is ...

Is she into me? I just can't tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

24 October 2016 (M) - Ok so there's this girl at school she's gorgeous, tries hard at school, works at the animal shelter, she's super nice, everything she does is just adorable, she's also really quiet and shy, she's the definition of an introvert. We're like opposites ...

I'm only important to him at night

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - iam having a boyfriend and I love him ,but he only takes me important during the night for example he can spend the day not calling me or even not sending texts ,he only does during the night,he hides me from his elder family members,does this man ...

My ex flaunts his new g/f in my face but behind her back he's still in contact with me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I split from my ex earlier this year and found out two weeks later that he was already with someone else (although chances are that she was already in the pipeline). My ex has rubbed his relationship with his new partner in my face- even turni...

He has gone cold on me and appears to be upset with me. Any helpful advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts There was a guy pursuing me and flirting with me for weeks. I did not notice the attraction initially. I then returned the flirting. We have exchanged numbers and we have spoken a little. He has now gone cold on me. He still lo...

How do I deal with my partner spending time with his ex wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I would like some advice on how to deal with a certain situation. My partner and I have been together for nearly 18 months, we are both in our 50s and divorced. He has two daughters in their late 20s, and I have no children. We live about 35 mi...

What would be your summation of what makes a guy so sexy? Is that impossible to define? Or could you say it is just a feeling you get inside?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

23 October 2016 (M) - Is there such a thing as a guy who you've just met or seen, who doesn't look like some kind of a model, and who makes you feel, "This guy is SEX! (gaaah, droool)...? What would be your description of what makes him so sexy, or is it impossible to...

Can you help? Seeking tips on how to move on when you finally realize that the love of your life is no longer available to you or no longer loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

23 October 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, So I’m the same guy who wrote these two posts. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mixed-signals-from-my-crush.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fwb-has-f...

I was the first Gf he ever had. Is he now over me? Or is he protecting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - i was seeing this guy for a few months and it was going so well but we both knew that at the end of summer o had to go back to study abroad for 3 months. When I left I told him maybe we shouldn't try long distance because I really liked him and ...

Dating but can't hang out. We text and he gives me butterflies. Why is this happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I have been dating this guy who ive know most of my life for about 3 months and were both 15.. The relationship is going good but we never can hang out because im busy and my parents wouldnt allow me. weve met a couple of times while at a mutuals ...

I was completely averse to sex in my previous relationship and though I'm better now, I still have negative feelings attached to it. Any words of advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I was with my ex for 5.5 years roughly. About 3 years in, I lost my sex drive. It had a lot to do with being on the pill but we also started having problems which didn't help. For the last year of our relationship, I hated sex, truly hated it, ...

Are there any strategies to deal with my reactions to the behaviour of his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Ive been with my partner 3 and a half years. Whilst i met his family quite early on, other than a handful of occasions i havent socialised with his friends. When i questioned him about this he is told me that the partners of his friends still se...

My beloved Bf is returning to the other side of the world. How do I cope with losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - I met this guy a year ago, we started dating and have been together for about a year now - I've never been so happy in my life, he completes me and is perfect. But, he's moving back home to the other side of the world - he came over here to travel ...

Why would a guy keep his GF around if he had lost all sexual desire for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Can anyone especially men please give me some advice..I'll try+keep it brief... Basically would a man keep their girlfriend around in a serious relationship if they had lost all sexual attraction for their partner?... The reason why i ask is I'v...

Should I tell my BF how I am feeling over talk of his ex? Or should I investigate if she is real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for one month now, but were friends for two years. I know all of his friends, but recently he's mentioned someone who he's never even spoken about before. Apparently, they used to be boyfriend and gi...

Bad time, not interested or wasting my time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Hi all need your urgent help and opinions. I April I a guy was introduced to me at my aunties birthday. he has worked with her in the past and was around my age. he seemed nice. I text him to say thank you for coming as is normal in my fami...