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writes:Ok so I'm 18 years old. I've been with a wonderful girlfriend for going on 3 years. I love her with all my heart but I wanna take your opinion. You see we both are virgins and I think I have a slight problem. Everytime I am alone with my girlfriend I cannot fight the feeling about just kissing her. Like every time I'm with her I cannot help but feel she is the most beautiful girl and I find everything about her so attracting. But everytime we are alone I just want to feel her body touching mine, I want to feel our lips touch. I get so engaged and so into those moments I never want to finish. Is it fine that I always want to seduce my girlfriend when we are alone. I mean it's not like we are alone all the time. I mean she turns me on and I cannot resist my girlfriend. Is wanting too much passion wrong or any downsides? Just curios for opinions thanks.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 October 2012):
 sounds normal to me.
you're 18
how old is she?
if she's 18 or older and you have been together 3 years is all you do kissing?
no wonder you want to be closer...that's the normal order of things...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012): I don't see how there could be anything negative about this situation unless it makes her feel uncomfortable. It's understandable since you guys have been together for so long. I would be worried if you weren't so attracted to her. If you have any doubts, just bring it up with your girlfriend and ask her how she feels about you having such strong sexual feelings for her. As long as you respect both her mind and body, you have nothing to worry about as far as I'm concerned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012): You have the the problem of sexual tension.
It means, you really want to have sex badly. With your girlfriend. Not that unreasonable, in my opinion.
Have a chat with her about how she feels about intimacy. Dont say 'i really want to have sex with you.' Say 'what are your personal feelings toward intimacy, and intimacy between us our relationship continues?'
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