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anonymous
writes:Updatehttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-is-renting-out-spare-room-to-another.htmlhis flatmate moved in and they went out together to celebrate as it has solved both their money troubles , i didnt get invited and he never said about it ,my mate saw them in a pub.i have decided to finish it as i feel he did want a female to move in rather than a man and has been distant since, lack of phone calls and busy. its not in my mind either.he has asked me round on Friday when she is at work , i just dont know how to word it as he has no clue i know they have been out together or if i should give it more time?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (25 October 2012):
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I would just come straight out and tell him how you feel.I think he was wrong and should have at least told you they were out.Coupled with the lessening contact it appears he is liking his new situation too much.
Have you been introduced to her yet?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2012): Just be straight with him. Tell him that you know the two of them went out and how you feel about it. If he says you are just being jealous and dismisses you out of hand than you have your answer.
Give it one last shot by telling him how you feel as calmly as you can. Then lay out some guidelines as to how you want to move forward. Letting you know in advance if they go out. Being invited to go. Whatever you need. Good luck with this.
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