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anonymous
writes:I'm trying to better understand men. Psychologically, what makes them more in the mood for a blow job over sex in the context of a relationship?
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reader, Serpico +, writes (3 October 2012):
Depends on the night. Sometimes one, sometimes the other. Fiancee is always willing...
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (2 October 2012):
Well I definitely prefer sex, maybe some guys enjoy a bj because the feeling is more intense, or just maybe because they are a bit lazy and just want to lie back and enjoy. My wife really likes giving a bj and gets very turned on so I always give in. I try to turn it into 69 which sometimes can be fantastic.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 October 2012):
 Your question is invalid. Men are not all the same, not all will want one or the other more.
Maybe YOUR boyfriend prefers blow jobs over sex. But that's just him. He does not represent all men. My boyfriend prefers sex over blow-jobs.
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reader, Tommy Crue +, writes (1 October 2012):
A blowjob is so intimate. As a man, it is just such a thrill to have a beautiful woman do that to you. There are alot of women who will not do it unless it is with someone they love and feel totally comfortable with. Makes us feel special I guess.
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reader, StupidGuyOhyes  +, writes (1 October 2012):
Well, being a guy I prefer sex! I like the closeness more! But maybe I'm in the minority! I like to make sure a lady gets as much pleasure out of sex as what I do so I always make sure they do before I do if you know what I mean? Too many selfish men out there! It's about 2 people having sex not 1!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 October 2012):
 it's easier for them to lay back and get a blow job than put forth the effort for intercourse...
it feels different.
and for us at least it's total submission to me... after all it's his most valuable possession being put near my TEETH... it's about trust sometimes too...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 October 2012):
 Not all guys do prefer them, my boyfriend doesn't. But some reasons I've heard:
-No effort from him required
-It feels dominant
-Has a different and sometimes stronger sensation
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