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anonymous
writes:I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. He is a wonderful person who treats me really well and I have been happy. But the other night I was out with friends and I met another guy out. There was some serious chemistry and I ended up kissing him. I feel bad about what I have done but it has made me seriously question my relationship. I feel that if i was happy I wouldn't have wanted to kiss this guy. And since that night I can't get the other guy off my mind. I really want to see him again but I don't know if I want to break up with my bf. I do still love him but i'm worried that i am maybe letting other opportunities pass me by. I am just so confused about what to do. please please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012): I just really don't want anyone to get hurt. the thing that is stopping me from breaking up with him is until the 'kiss' i felt perfectly happy in the relationship. I can't imagine not having him in my life. To some extent yes, I am quite dependent on him and to lose him would be taking away the support he has given me for 3 years now.the more i think about it the more confused i get!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 October 2012):
 at the young age of 18-21 you really are not sure what you want.
to be honest no matter how much chemistry I have with other people I never get the urge to kiss anyone but my fiance.
even when I was a swinger in my last marriage, kissing was OFF my table...
why don't you want to lose your boyfriend? is it the security of knowing he's there, the ego stroke of someone that loves you?
I think that sadly the "I think we should see other people" comment is coming for you two and that often is the death knell of a relationship...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012): I know your right, I do need to work on my relationship. It's just we are both still young, we met when we were 18 and it's both of our first serious relationship. The thing is this whole situation has made me wonder if we should be out meeting other people, but at the same time i don't want to lose him. This is literally the most confusing time for me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2012): Lets be honest here...how well do you ACTUALLY know this other guy?Would you genuinely throw a 3 year relationship down the pan for one kiss? Yes maybe you are right AND deep down you aren't happy 100% with your b/f but why just go "meh that's not working at the moment" *toss away*When you AND your b/f could work on your relationship AND make it better AND stronger instead of giving up at the first sign of trouble?!
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