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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he worth waiting around for? Commitment phobic boyfriend of 4.5 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years now. We have lived together for 3 1/2 years. Whenever I bring up marriage or our future he doesn't say anything. He says he will propose some day, but that's not good enough for me. He says, ...

She's being a recluse. But says we're not 'over' yet. What does she want? I want to see her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - Hello, I started seeing a girl a couple of months ago we spent some time together and slept together a few times, we got very close it was very passionate. The Christmas holidays came up so she was out of town for a while likewise with me too, so ...

How do I choose between three guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. im dating three guys and two of they guys have already known that am double dating. I was thinking that will make them leave me but they are still begging me to stay. All i want now is how to choose between these three guys. Am ...

What makes a girl a "safe bet"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - What does it mean when a guy says you are 'a safe bet' ???????...

He's divorced but I found out he has a longterm gf! He's just contacted me and I am unsure how to deal with all this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some advice because my heart I think will rule my head. I was seeing this guy and things were ok, he told me was divorced and just wanting to keep things casual, I was disappointed but truthfully I was flattered that this guy was inte...

Why would girlfriend have contact details of guy who raped her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - My gf, who is now 27, was raped at 16 by a 26 year old guy she used to hang around with. She never told anyone except me when i met her 5 years ago. She has never dealt with it and has kept it blocked out. She made me promis never to tell anyone or ...

In his message to me, he said "don't run off with the circus in the meantime ". What did he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - This guy cancelled our date yesterday, and i have an update on the situation. I sent him a private message last night saying that it was a shame that we couldn't meet, and that we could meet again sometime if he wanted, and i said i hoped he liked ...

I am inexperienced..so how do I deal with my more experienced bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I with a guy and things are going really well but the problem is that I am extremely shy when it comes to any physical contact and he is starting to make small comments like he always makes the first move etc. I really like him but I feel ...

My gf is pregnant with her abusive ex-bf's baby! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - I met a girl 3 months ago, and we fell madly in love and were both 39 and have talked about marriage and we both feel we have found our soul mates in each other. During these 3 months ive found out that her last relationship the guy cheated on her ...

Is he only looking for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I ve been talking to a guy on the phone and through text for over a month. We decided to meet soon and he often mentions he cant wait to hug and kiss me. I asked him exactly what hes looking for and he said for u to be good friends that hang out and ...

Do I have a right to be angry with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I need to know if I have the right to be angry. Whats Happened: I was supposed to be going my boyfriend's this weekend to spend some time with him. Friday I would go to his, Saturday we would go bowling with friends and then back to his and the...

How will I face my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice on what to do. I feel guilty and am plagued with sin. A few days back my friend and I hung out together but as we were talking, he suddenly hugged me and even planted a kiss on me. Although I pushed him away but he ...

We were dating and suddenly he revealed that he has a child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid... I've been seeing this guy for a little while now and we've been hanging out. He's 26 and i'm 20 and the other night we were in my car talking and he told me that he had a kid! The child is 4 years old so it was kind of shocking. I'...

Multiple issues here. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - A lot of help needed on this. Ok so I'm in a relationship with this girl who I will call X. Well X is quite young 18 to be precise. Now X and I have been dating for around 9 months, where she's known me and helped my out through my ex and was al...

Should I tell her that I love her and risk losing her friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - i am in love with my classmate-cum-friend, she thinks me as her brother, but i love her the most, we are not in blood relation, i am very afraid to say my feelings to her that she would leave me and i don't want that. i want to make her realize that ...

How do I win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - Recently me and my girlfriend broke up (both 20 years old). The past 2 months were stressful and pressuring on us, as we moved house twice over Christmas and new year. Since september, we've seen each other 24/7 (after being rendered jobless) and ...

Do guys like it when u kiss them all over their body and tell them that u love every inch of them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - do guys enjoy the sensual loving touch of woman ? do they love to cuddle, snuggle with their girlfriend and hold them close?...

Career or women?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - I'm about one third of the way through a one year postgraduate degree in science, and I'm really down about it at this stage. I only chose science initially for university because I was in a bad place at the end of high school and despite my real ...

Am I to blame for getting dumped?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I used to talk dirty with my very close guy friend P (read: sexting). We had a deal that it was just for fun and only talking and it wasnt gonna go anywhere. But one day we had a drunken makeout session. Soon after our friendship soured and we ...

Am I Playing Hard To Get?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (?) - A guy I went out with twice texted me on the fourth day saying he had fun but he'll be out of town on business during the week. He asked to see me on the following weekend but we didn't say when, what time, etc. There was no other contact during ...

Am I moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of only 3 months emigrated to Australia on a working holiday visa today. Before I had even met him I'd planned on going myself with a group of friends in September. Now Im thinking that I hate being away from him and I'll go over ...

I'm confused about my relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - [Mod-Note: Names have been changed for privacy] hi dear cupid, My problem is my friend, Paul. We're only friends not a boyfriend and girlfriend but he is ignoring me not by not responding in this side, no calls, no msgs and no e-mails ...Paul's...

I still have feelings for my ex but I need to move on!

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20 January 2012 (F) - I was in a LDR for 3 years and we were perfect for each other...I love him!! This exact time was when I saw him physically last I went to see him on the 20th and came home first week into february but when I left things changed and he became in...

Can this kind of man turn on any kind of woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - Hello women out there. Would it be true that any man within the average range of attractiveness, taking into account looks, clothing, job, education, etc, who is also totally comfortable in his own skin, has his own goals that he's heading toward ...

I was told he liked me, but he hasn't called or texted in 3 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - So I like this guy. His friend that I work with told me that the guy likes me too. I gave his friend my number to give to him... 3 days ago. The guy hasn't called or texted or anything - but his friend still insists that he likes me. Should I make a ...

Our first date didn't go so well, is there a possibility for redemption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I was set up with this guy by a mutual friend and right off the bat there were awkward silences. I don't know if it was because of me or him, but I just couldn't think of anything to get the conversation going and apparently neither could he. I'm ...

How can I make my G/f feel more special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - I am going out with a girl who is very quiet, i thought it was low attraction at start but it was down to her personality. i think she really likes me alot, remembers everything i say, laughs at everything and always wants to text and meet when she ...

Help! I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 6 months and he is the most amazing man Ive ever met. However I am completely obsessed with his ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 years. They broke up 2 years ago because he freaked out about committed pressure...

He's overprotective, and we both did stupid things at my party. Should we break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) - I'm 13 and in year 9 my boyfriends 15 and is in year 10 hes called joel, anyway weve been together for about 3 1/2 months it seems like for ever because ever since we started doing stuff it just causes arguments. it feels like im on lock down i ...

I just cant seem to like girls my age!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - So in a weird flip of the coin i have recently started seeing older women. I am 24 and im seeing a lady who is 34 and another who is 42. i have fooled around with a lady who was 63 last week. i really dont know what it is. i find them attractive and ...