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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I cant say the romantic things I want to say, and I freeze up when he says cute things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - When my boyfriend of over a year gets really romantic ... i freeze up... I can respond to sexual prompts fine... he talks dirty, I talk dirty, he comes on to me, I come on to him... But when he says or does something just really sweet... I just ...

"how do I attract boys?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - (Note: The good advice is at the bottom. Read through for a laugh) I see this so often nowadays. mostly it's girls who want their first kiss, or a boyfriend, or whatever, and they ask us what they need to do to get a boyfriend. So I'm...

I think I love my best friend! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Well basically I have a boy issue. I think I love my best friend who I'm really close with but I always put our friendship first as we're so close and I've accepted that he may not feel the same way, however there is a bigger problem. The boys ...

Going to his house to do oral...does he like me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hi um recently I've been talking with this guy and he is in my science class. I've known him for two years now and were friends. Not close but were friends. And recently we've gotten much closer than ever. It started over Christmas break. He texted ...

He flirts with me but loves another! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - there is this boy, he is amazing and i think i'm in love with him but the only trouble is he's in love with his ex yet he still leads me on and flirts with me, i really don't know what to do......

I have obsessive thoughts of him..fancying someone else. How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Please help I am wrecking my relationship with these obsessive thoughts about him fancying someone else... It can sometimes make me start fights. If I know he works with someone pretty i imagine him thinking about her while we make love, and i...

Why would he email me after 3 months of no contact? Should I reply with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Why would he email me after 3months of no contact? should I reply with this? ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. Thought he was the one. But he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship then I found out he was cheating all along. He wan...

I met her on FaceBook and found that I love her. But she doesn't want a bf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (M) - I know her only on fb. even though she gave me her no, I have never talk to her on phone thats cause she live is USA and I live is South Africa but her Origin is in South Africa, anyways we were best friend on facebook, one day I faced problem then ...

Questions about a large life insurance policy! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of two years was thinking about Marriage and he wants to set up an insurance policy of one million on my name so that he said, that if he pass away (God forbid) I will have money to start with. Should I agree with this? That this kind ...

I like him but he loves her. So why aren't they just together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - So I've been having a "thing" with this guy. He's handsome (very), exceptionally intelligent, hard working, athletic, kind, thoughtfully, assertive, etc. I'm not the only girl to be drawn in by all these positive characteristics, and I doubt I'll ...

My body isn't the same after having a baby...so my bf's porn watching bothers me... a lot! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years we have a two year old daughter and we live together. I caught him watching porn the other night while i was supposed to be napping. I approached him and he lied to my face when i could see it on ...

Not sure that what I do feel for him is love anymore and I feel suffocated in this relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. When I met him I was 15 and he was 19. He was amazing, everything I could ever wish for and more, he treated me like a real princess, he gave everything to me. The only downside was tha...

I don't feel loved by him...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - we have been together for almost a year and he tells me everyday that he loves me, he just does not show it. I tried telling him how I feel, then it will change for a few days and then return to the not feeling loved again. He get's upset easy and ...

Will he ever get his problems sorted out? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - My fiance and i split totally a few weeks ago after 3 mths of it being rocky due to his controlling and possesiveness over me,we have been together almost 4 yrs but known him 18yrs....He says now that he is a new guy and the person he was or 3 mths ...

Relationships, cheating, possessiveness. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (?) - Hi. I recently posted in "I cheated and he just won't stop bringing it up!! Advice pls?" Anyway... off that topic now... here's a new one: Possessiveness... My boyfriend (he's 21) of whom I have been with for 6 months, not only bring...

How do I keep things casual in a message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I sent a message to this guy that i like on friday night on facebook asking if he'd like me to go to his place the next day. he sent me a message back today saying " i can't believe this !. i only use the internet on weekdays, 9-5 ". I'm guessing he ...

I haven't kissed a guy in over a year and a half!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hi! So basically it has just occurred to me that I haven't kissed a guy in over a year and a half. Being 20 years old I feel I should have had a bit of luck in love by now... but I've had nothing, not even a proper date. I think this is all partly ...

Am I right in wanting more time?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

23 January 2012 (M) - I have been seeing my gf for 10 months now and it has now become apparent that she wants me to decide pretty shortly if I want it to be a lifelong commitment ie marriage and kids. Or not = end of relationship. We have lived together for around 6 ...

Will I have to wait around all my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 20 and I have been seeing this man (35) for two years. I know I care for him and though I realize that something like marriage cannot happen right now (I want to finish school and be settled in my career first) I wanted to at ...

Is he a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hello. Recently I got chatting with a guy on facebook who 's friends with some of my friends. We got on well, made each other laugh, and so after about 2 days of this he invited me for a drink, which also went really well. Fast forward 2 weeks, I've ...

Should I be upset and jealous over his remarks??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I was watching TV with my boyfriend and Faith Hill came on for a moment. This is what he said.... "Mmmm Faith Hill is a scrumptious treat. I want to eat her up. She is sooooooo fucking hot!!!" I got upset and we had a huge argument about it...

How do I deal with my bf's "step aunt?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has a step dad, who has a step sister which makes her his 'step aunt' in a way. She's a year younger than him and ever since I first met her things seemed fishy. They used to stare at each other across the room at family parties. She's ...

LDR advice please?. Because I need it. He's stressed out over his exams. He's not giving me the attention I need. He thinks it's not big deal..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years, we're pretty serious about each other and are planning on moving in together after I finish my Foundation degree next year. We're both 18 and we've been in a long distance relationship for ...

I thought he was the "one". Apparently not. So why does he still want to meet? Will I ever get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Why am I still hurting after so many months? is this normal? ? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 10months ago. He said he didn't want a relationship anymore. But then I found out he was cheating on me when we were together. I loved him so much,...