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writes:I really like this guy. He is in a couple of my friends classes and we met several weeks ago. The thing is that we both just got over relationships. He says he needs time but we video chatted for hours late into the night. I asked him to tutor me. He said yes and tutored me once. He was very nice. He is always kind. However during the video chat, he was flirty and wanted to kiss me but right now he seems to be ignoring me or just not saying anything. We went to the movies this weekend and video chatted on Sunday night into the morning before school started. He was very flirty that night but before he became flirty he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship yet..I am confused as he has said he likes me but doesn't show it. He said he was going to kiss me after school on Monday but didn't and gave me a raincheck. What is going on and what do I do? I am confused! Thanks for your help!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2011):
 Yes I understand that you are only out of a relationship as well, but it is obvious you are ready to move on now, this doesn't mean that he is in the same place as you. You say he hasn't told you straight that he needs time, but look at what he has told you, he has openly been honest with you and told you that he is not ready to be in a relationship. How much clearer can you get it. Its up to you now if you want to wait for him or else move on from him. The decision is in your hands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI got out of a relationship like him; I just don't want to be left hanging. I feel like if he needs time, I want to hear it rather than hoping every time I see him for something and getting disappointed.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (20 October 2011):
I can understand why you are confused and my guess is that he is just as confused as you. It sounds like he is just a bit of a mess at the moment and is unsure of what he wants. He has just gotten out of my relationship and he is probably still trying to get over his ex girlfriend and this may be holding him back from developing things further with you. I am not doubting that he does like you but you need to give him some time I think before it can go any further. Good luck.
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