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Why won't my boyfriend pay me any attention?

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Question - (7 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ffingluvyouXXX writes:

Okay so I’m dating my ex boyfriend again.

He broke up with me last time cause apparently i was being to “bitchy”. Anyways he had dated for about 3-4 months and we broke up. Ever since the break up i couldn’t take my mind off him. We took a break for a couple months. So i decided one night i wanted him back. He took me back quite easily. He thought it was strange that i decided to talk to him again. I had talked a lot of crap about him during the break up and i don’t know why because i really love him. Me and him started talking to each other again over text messaging and he started liking me again. Then within a few days he asks me out. I said yes. I was so happy to be finally going back out. The reason why i was a ***** to him last time was because he showed no interest in me and didn’t seem to ever wanna talk to me. But anyways, he started talking to me a lot the first week and stuff. But now he just stop acting like he cares. He never calls me, and he never texts me back or takes FOREVER to reply. He says he was sleeping over something but he never wants to talk to me anymore.

I don’t know what to do. I really love him. he says he loves me. But its really hard to tell when he doesn’t text me, call me back, answer my phone calls or anything.

I don’t know what it is he doesn’t like about me!

I haven’t gotten in one fight with him yet.

I have not been a ***** what so ever.

I just wanna know why he shows no interest in being my boyfriend.

I just simply want him to truly love me and talk to me!!

WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

he used to.

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A female reader, °Ale° Colombia +, writes (8 July 2008):

°Ale° agony auntAwww... sorry you feel that way, sweetpea.

By the way, the name is Ale- not Alec :)

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A female reader, EffingluvyouXXX United States +, writes (8 July 2008):

EffingluvyouXXX is verified as being by the original poster of the question

EffingluvyouXXX agony auntOK alec.

Your a bitch

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A female reader, nnairac1972 United States +, writes (7 July 2008):

Just wait for him to call you, do not test him or email anything, when he test you try not to answer right away, you will see how everything changes and he will miss you and call you every single day. Guys likes to chase you out, they don't like it when you chase them... don't say yes all the time when he wants to go out, tell him you have plans and maybe another day... He will get crazy for you girl, just do it

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2008):

Well he's only a little boy. He's probably more interested in playing video games / football than committing to a serious relationship.

I don't think he's ready to give you what you want from a relationship.

Either put up with it as it is, or get out and be single for a while. Figure out who are and what you want from life, boyfriends really should be your last priority when at this point you could go anywhere and do anything with your life.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, °Ale° Colombia +, writes (7 July 2008):

°Ale° agony auntUm... Ughh... Ok...

Perhaps the poor guy got tired of waiting on you- since you were treating him like a yoyo!

I suggest you move on and let the dude alone.

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