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Big crush on her, but not sure how to proceed, please help me?

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Question - (7 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *ilotwes writes:

So, i was on a trip recently and saw this girl at a restaurant who looked like someone i knew but i couldn't figure out who. So, when i got back to my hotel i got on my myspace and looked through my friends list (for abut 30 minutes) and realized it was a girl who i knew fairly well and i got to lookin' at some pics of her and i fell for her immediantly.Before,

i had never felt such a "crush" on a girl but i feel a really good connection between us and i really really like her now.I had one of her friends(who is also a good friend of mine) make sure she was single and he said "yeh she is" though i was lookin' at her profile and i saw some guy had said "ily" (which i know means "i love you") after talkin' about goin' to a waterpark with her. Then she had responded sayin'"ok i'll see if i can go...ly2"(love you 2..if you didn't know!) and that really scared me!...beacuse i now don't know if she single or not! the wierd thing is on the guy's page he mentions liking some other girl. I'm really confused and frustrated becasue this girl is my "dreamgirl" and it took me so long to realize it, but at the same time i don't know if she is single. I really really like her and would appreciate suggestions on how to go with things!

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A female reader, Gemz United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2008):

It sounds as if you really like her. Which is a good thing :) Well when im on facebook and bebo and websites like that i always write ilu or ily on my boy mates and if she has agreed to go out with you then she probaly is single. If you invite one of your male friends and ask her to invite one of her friends then maybe you could pop the question to her and you wont feel so awkward, like bringing up a conversation about dating etc etc. I think that her and the male on facebook are good friends but thats all. Why dont you ask her ? Go on and take a risk :)

Good Luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008):

Why not just email and ask her? Tell her you saw her again in person and would like to talk more. What can you lose by trying?

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