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writes:I'm so nervous around my boyfriend. He is so loving to me. Always makes me feel wanted, always compliments me..But I don't know how to act around him.Do guys like being called gorgeous?I don't know how to treat a guy in a relationship.I'm not exactly a sappy person, because Im really skeptical I suppose.. But I do love him, and I just don't know what I can do, to show him that I love him.We are both Seventeen year olds, and we are both Virgins.Help!
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reader, pinay23  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 hey. its alright to be nervous, thats normal. I dont really think gorgeous is a right word to call a guy. Maybe cute when your about to laugh(ex.your cute babe) or sexy(ex.d*** babe your sexy) when you feel wild. And in a Casual way would be handsom(ex.You look handsom hun). And when he complements you; just smile and you can give him a peck on the lips or the cheek.And about being a virgin depends how long and close you two been together.well lates.goodluck and if you need me send me a message or aim on kaysadork. or ask me for my myspace.
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reader, babylove1234 +, writes (7 July 2008):
i'm exactly the same way.just, not 17.think of things to say before your with him to let him know you really love him. it takes the pressure off when youve sort of rehersed what you wanted to say
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): It is ok to be nervous....try not to focus on that and just tell yourself to relax and have FUN...give yourself permission to breathe and to have fun.
I hope that you remain a virgin for awhile and don't rush into anything as a lot of emotions that come up with having sex can be difficult to deal with at a young age and without a solid foundation in your relationship.
Guys usually say the L word first, and it is good to let him do that, and then you can tell him that you love him too....guys tend to get cold feet when you say it first, it is scarey to them, they like to feel that they are in control of the pace of the relationship, so just let him be that guide, it sort of takes the pressure off you doesn't it?
Take care.
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