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writes:I love my boyfriend ,but he never answers my calls.I've called him for a few days to make plans and go out.It seemed like he was ignoring me.He called today and said he never recieved any calls.I was pissed because he has caller ID and everything.I love him but he likkes to play around and contradict me.Thats what I hate about someone when I know something is right.He likes to make comments about everything ,too.I invited him to come to the pool and as soon as he got in he said that the pool's floor was too hard!Plus he kicks my dog's cage when I put him in so he won't disturb us.Then, if the dog barks, he'll tell him to be quiet.I love him but tell me the truth.Should I potentially break up with him, dump him, or keep him? Reply to this Question
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 They weren't lying when they said girls mature faster then boys...He sounds like my little cousin! And she's only 7!Let him know you have no patience for his immaturity and ditch him. He obviously has a lot more growing to do.I think it would be best if you went looking for someone more on your maturity level.xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Why don't you try tellng him what you do want him to do, and see if he works on changing, if he doesn't and you don't like how he behaves then it is time to move on and enjoy someone else's company who doesn't disrespect you and your dog.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): This guy obviously isn't as mature relationship wise as you are and isn't ready to deal with a 24/7 commitment. He's in this to have fun with you, and if that's what you want then by all means keep him. But if you want a guy who is going to be serious and care about you and your future and want the best for you then dump this guys sorry ass and let him know that there are plenty of other guys out there who will appreciate you for the wonderful smart young women that you most certainly are
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): You need to get rid of this person. He seems like a real jerk. I know you are in love with him but he does not treat your (or your dog) right.Please do yourself a favor and dump him.But if you decide to keep him, you definately need to set him straight.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 Denying phone calls, stupid comments, violent behaviour... he sounds like an immature little boy.
I'd lose him. You're still young, and there are plenty of other, decent lads out there.
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