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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I think I know why I feel insecure but what can I do about it to not push this man away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi there, I have a question that has been bothering me for a while and I really hope someone can please shed some light on it. I have noticed a pattern in many of my relationships and I don't know why it happens or how I can help it. For examp...

We used to treat each other with little respect and now I get butterflies whenever he comes near me! Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - A bit of a shallow question I know and I feel really bad asking about it. Theres this guy I work with. Never been attracted to him. In fact we have a bit of history or "not getting on." As I've said, never found him attractive, but lately we ...

Any pointers to help me feel less anxious he is going to return to his nasty ways, and also help me deal with the overly flirty ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about a year with no problems, however before this I previously went out with him for about a year when I was a lot younger (17), he was not the person he is now, at the time he was well known as a womaniser, and ...

Is it better to get experienced and then settle down? Do I sacrifice my relationship in order to acquire that "experience"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down? I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf an...

Wondering if many people out there have met someone later in life and whether there is hope for me yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm in my early thirties and still haven't met the love of my life. I've had quite a few short term relationships (weeks/months) but nothing that you would consider serious I don't know why this is the case. I've had my heart broken a few tim...

He said we can advance by the time I reach 18 if I still like him. Why shouldn't we date now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I am 15 and i like someone who is 20. We both have feelings for each other but because of the age difference we have to wait until i am 18. he said that when i am 18 if i still have feelings for him than we should make the relationship serious. but ...

I rejected her twice, when I realised I liked her she became unavailable for me, although we are still good friends! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - This girl and I have been pretty good friends for almost the last year, over that time she has asked me twice now to be her boyfriend. Unfortunatly both times I was scared to be in a relationship especially since I have never had one yet and I was ...

Don't want to leave my feelings unspoken too long before she finds someone new, but should I tell her now, after her recent break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - Hi. My (female) best friend has just (about 6 weeks ago) broken up with her boyfriend of two years. Since then we have been spending quite a lot of time together and I feel like we've become even closer than we always have been. The problem ...

My boyfriend is making me do things and I am not confortable with it

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - ive just got in to a relationship with someone that made me do things i wasnt sure i wanted to do. he is 16 im 12 almost 13 i cant tell my mum or dad i still love him and want to be with him but i dont know how to say can we slow down beacuse ...

My ex seems to want me back, but I really am happy with my new guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I have been in constant contact daily now with my ex husband and also sometimes a few times a week with a man I have always wanted to be with that lives near me and I work with daily.My ex helped me alot helping me get a new car that me and my ...

I'm just curious what you all think would be a nice way to tell him to stop without disgusting him. "Stop, I'm bleeding," doesn't seem to quite cut it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I'm on my period and the guy I've recently started seeing has tried to make a move. I'm just curious what you all think would be a nice way to tell him to stop without disgusting him. "Stop, I'm bleeding," doesn't seem to quite cut it. Since it's ...

My boyfriend, who is my absolute soulmate, broke up with me last week.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, who is my absolute soulmate, broke up with me last week. Only the weekend before he had been talking about marrying me and talking about having kids! We have had a happy fun relationship for 1 1/2 years and he has a great relationship ...

Which way to turn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi, Got a very good job and recently moved to a new country. I feel very lost with no friends. I have a boyfriend back home who is presently not taking well to the long distance. We constantly fight all the time and I always have to let him know ...

My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem? He says men don't masturbate about the woman they love??...

Can you help me please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into a fight a long time ago and I want to get back together with him but every time he looks at me he shakes his head from side to side. What do I do?...

How can I make myself carry on and be able to make my boyfriend cum without having to change to a completely different position?

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19 February 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now. We've tried quite a few different positions to find out which is best for both of us and we both have different opinions. However, when I go on top and cum, I just kinda give ...

How can I truly know how he feels before I open up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I'm so confused. I have fallen head over hills for a guy friend of mine. At times he seems to be really interested in me then again it seems like he could care less (romantically). I want to tell him how I feel w/o jepordizing our friendship. At ...

I want an orgasm- please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I haven't had many sexual partners (4) but I am not a sexually inexperienced or unadventurous person. But I have always faked orgasms with all my boyfriends and I am ashamed to say I have never, not even once, had an orgasm through sex. I can ...

I been trying to make a baby but every time me and my boyfriend have sex the cum comes back out so can I still get pregnant and if so how long will it take?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I been trying to make a baby but every time me and my boyfriend have sex the cum comes back out so can I still get pregnant and if so how long will it take? ...

The 'safe but unhappy' longterm or a risk on a wonderful older man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I am a 23-year old female. I met my partner 3 years ago and fell madly in love. He was without doubt the person I wanted to be with forever, marriage kids, the lot. But things have been declining for the last year, he has become not only less ...

How can I get over the past and move on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I've recently gotten back with an ex, we were together for 6 years and apart for over two years, Orginally we split because we got together at an early age and both wanted more, I went away and eventually he slept with someone else, even th...

Why does every man I have ever been out with feel compelled to mention how ‘hot looking’ girls are to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Why does every man I have ever been out with feel compelled to mention how ‘hot looking’ girls are to me? I have been going out with a guy for 8 months. I appreciate that men look at other girls (they wouldn’t be men if they didn’t), but the ...

I love my boyfriend, now my ex has came back into my life and I love him too...HELP!

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19 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (Simon) and I have been dating for 6 months, I met him on the a chat site, he's a little older than me, I have always disliked marriage and when he started to talk about it a few months back I went for counselling it changed my views a ...

It was just a stupid kiss...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of 2 years, love him a lot, we've had our problems like everyone else. About a month ago I was extremely drunk and kissed another guy, not passionately just a drunken kiss, neither of us meant it and both feel really really ...

Been with fiance for 7 years and he called it off on Saturday!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I was in a car accident about 1.5 years ago. It affected my confidence amongst other things. I lost out on a promotion at work that I wanted for 6 years and now I have lost my fiance who I love so much. We have been together for 7 years, engaged ...

I opened my heart in a letter, now I feel like a fool!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - I wrote a girl a letter this past week telling her how special she meant to me. Considering she hasn't written back, I'm assuming she must be freaking out. I am such an Idiot!!! For once, I've decided to pour out my heart to someone I like and ...

Can you help me overcome my shyness and get more physical with my gf??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - I am sooooo shy but only around my gf. We've been going out for 7 months... and we havnt even kissed or hugged yet! Whats wrong with me? I was just with my gf and one of my friends goes up and hugs her jokingly! I really want to get more phy...

How can suggesting sex be more romantic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I have a question about asking to make love, have sex, or intercourse. What are some cute, romantic, creative, and sexy ways to ask to make love/have sex? What information do you have about asking? What ideas do you have about making asking for ...

Is it worth saying 'yes' but losing a friend to go out with a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - This guy that i have known since 6th grade is now interested in me and im interested in him, but one of my ex-best friends has been in love with him since 4th grade. She's a grade ahead of us and my best friend is basically like her sister and my n...

Why do women play hard to get and when does the playing end?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

19 February 2008 (M) - I am just curious...but how far will a girl play hard to get before she finally decides...Okay, I tortured him enough? I know someone who really likes this girl and he obviously makes it known to her. By the way she looks and flirts with him, I am ...

Is it forgiveable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I went out with my boyfriend and his good friend for drinks last night. We had all consummed a lot of alcohol and my boyfriend went to play poker on the other side of the room with a group and I stayed at the bar with his friend. Next thing I ...