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anonymous
writes:Hi, Got a very good job and recently moved to a new country. I feel very lost with no friends. I have a boyfriend back home who is presently not taking well to the long distance. We constantly fight all the time and I always have to let him know whenever I go out, who I am with at all times. He seems happy in a way that I have no friends. I'm tired. I don't know where to start from. Scared of ending the relationship because right now he is the only friend I have. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Hi Hunny
You have just moved and got this great new job, The people at your work, Is there anyone who you have met yet that you feel you may be able to talk to? You b/f is upset and is not taking this well he is making this move very difficult as he sounds more jealous than of support so therefor is making life harder for you sweetheart, You must have spoken about this before you left but he has taken it badly so now he is taking it out on you in a very negative way... Im sending you a link for your self esteem as you can talk to people on this site and it may help with your adjustment,
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php?ad=lm614
It has quite a few very good helpfull and possitive ways to improve things in your life, As you settle in hopefully you will start to meet new people and start to have more confidence and when your confidence gets better you will then be stronger to deal with your problems that you are having with your b/f if you need a chat in the meantime mess me and Ill help in anyway I can TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Do you have no friends at all or just no friends in the new country? I see you're Dutch - which country have you moved to?
Your boyfriend seems to be rather possessive and worried that you might be cheating on him now that you're apart. Is there any chance of him joining you?
If you're looking for friends, join a club or maybe go out with your colleagues for a drink after work. I moved from Britain to France five years ago and I made my friends mostly through my job. Don't worry, it IS possible to meet people.
The lonely period is only temporary, I assure you :-)
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