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writes:I am sooooo shy but only around my gf. We've been going out for 7 months... and we havnt even kissed or hugged yet! Whats wrong with me? I was just with my gf and one of my friends goes up and hugs her jokingly! I really want to get more physical. Any advice will help. Thank you.
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reader, farrah777  +, writes (21 February 2008):
thats normal to be like that at that age.
You probably think that if you go hug her you coul get rejected or feel like an idiot or something, but trust me she will love it and not only that she'll probably like you even more than she already does.
Maybe try hugging her alone so you feel more comfortable and don't feel like everyones watching you. She's probably feeling the same way, you just need to communicate with her.
hope that helps
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 You are like me but a boy version the same thing is with me but i do hug and kiss my boyfreind. You need to talk to her my boyfriend talked to my best friends about our problems but now tells me everything although i havnt met my boyfriend yet because i dont want to my last lad treated me bad and im not ready and he understands that so your gf will understand promise she will just go up to her when you are out an d hug her she will love it that is my favourite thing to do hug.good luck hun
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Your young! your new to it all. 7 months is a long time, but then when your younger relationships are different. Trust me, the first time is always the hardest, if you feel embarrased doing it infront of friends or anything, just wait till your alone, she obviously likes you back else you wouldnt have been together for so long, she proberly feels the same way and is just as shy. Just bite the bullet and give her a big hug. Not like she will deny you or anything, so youve nothing to worry about.
Also, its different hugging/kissing somebody your friends with, rather than sombody you like, dont know why it is, but then thats how it goes. Butterflies and all of that :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Hi Hunny
There is nothing wrong with you hunny I was just the same at your age, Id go all to jelly if my b/f tryed to kiss me, You are just scared of doing the wrong thing sweetheart being loving is natural popping your arm around your g/f and giving her a tender sqeeze start of by doing that when you are sat next to each other, It will make her feel special. You dont need to rush these things she has been with you along time so she is happy and you are kind and good so it will come in good time sweetheart, You no from my experience its so much nicer when you are young to have a b/f that is not pushy that shows affection but does not expect to much out of you so just try the hug hunny and then when you get more comfortable things will come, She is a lucky girl your kind and sensitive thats a wonderfull quality to find in a young man. YOU TAKE CARE HUNNY WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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