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reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 ask him?
real love is individual, noone will ever feel it the same way, yet it is something that can unite us all becasue we can have a deeper understand of why someone behaves the way they do when they are in love.
it is when you miss them before they've even gone, when you are happy with being with them all the time.
and as cheeeeeeeeesy as it sounds, it is also when you are are actually willing to let them go for their own sake
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reader, jomana +, writes (12 May 2007):
 real love is when you'd do anything and evrything to the person you love . real love is when your partner would try to comfort you in any way when your feeling down . real love is when you feel respected and secure from your partner.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 May 2007):
 If you truly love someone then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy and content in their company and enjoy being together. Above all you can be yourself when you're with them. You never try to be anything more or someone different because you don't need to. You don't have to impress them to win them over and you never have to play games to make them like you. There is trust and understanding on both sides and you feel safe and secure within yourself. You would never undermine them, they are not someone in whose company you feel threatened or small. They are someone with whom you can share your innermost thoughts and worries, a person with whom you should be able to share anything, they are your friend and your confidante and you can be honest with them at all times, you can tell them anything because they love you as you are.
He/she may be someone who is the direct opposite of you. On the surface you may seem like chalk and cheese. Whilst you may be loud and forceful they may be quiet and thoughtful. You may come from different backgrounds, different countries or be twenty years apart but this doesn't matter. There is an unspoken language between you, the spiritual connection between you both is so deep that you seem to be able to communicate without even speaking to each other. You are happy to lie in silence together. You feel sometimes that there is no need to talk because you feel that you know what they are thinking anyway. You feel so close to them that sometimes you think you could almost read their mind. You know when they are worried, in pain, or sad just by looking at them. It is as though there exists some kind of telepathy between you.
Real love stands the test of time, you laugh together, cry together and even have your differences but this doesn't matter, you love that person AND their failings. You come together in a crisis and work through things together and this just brings you closer. You take their feelings into consideration in all that you do. They are the most important person in your life!
Eve
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (12 May 2007):
 how do you know if he loves you. Well i agree with CD you wont know if he loves you. You have to trust that he is telling you the truth if he says he loves you, if he is the kind of guy that would tell you the truth, im pretty sure that he actually means it when he says he loves you.What is real love? real love is doing anything for the special person in your life. Real love is wanting to be with that person all the time, feeling them emotionally and just being there for each other thats real love.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (12 May 2007):
 If you love someone you are prepared to do anything for them, and I mean anything and almost blindly. The thing which you need to worry about is how you feel?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 May 2007):
 Simple answer- you won't. All through your life you'll have to rely on trusting that he loves you rather than seeing the actual evidence. Words are easy and anyone can say they love you but it takes real effort to prove it. Be less obsessed on being loved and worry more about loving to your full potential because that's all you can do and some day you'll understand that to love someone means so much more than being loved but not loving back.
CD
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