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writes:Please help I need some advice. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 7 months, we get on well and everything seemed to be going along fine. Then last week she told me she felt we should stop seeing each other. Her reason was that she had a lot of work to do, is going to be busy, simply didn’t have time for a relationship and that it wasn’t fair for me to have a girlfriend who I couldn’t see. This was out of the blue and doesn’t make sense to me, since she’s told me she really likes me and felt I was the ‘perfect boyfriend’. Why would she want to stop our relationship and risk me meeting somebody else if she feels this way? Also, I explained how I felt about her and that I didn’t mind if we took things a little slower and only seen each other once or twice a week, instead of most nights as we had been. She turned around and said she didn’t really know what she wanted anymore and to give her some time to think. Which I did, I left it a week and got back in touch. However, she said she had made up her mind, that she doesn’t want a boyfriend and feels I should meet somebody else and get on with my life! Can anyone help me understand this, as i'm so confused? I really don’t understand this girl, how can she say to leave things if she likes me etc? I asked her to meet so we could talk things through, but she refused. She said that she does really like me and doesn’t like anyone else, but just cant be with me at the moment. I haven’t seen or heard from her for a few days and don’t know what to do now? I really like her, infact I love her and don’t want to leave things, but what can I do? Reply to this Question
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