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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work. Me and my cousin started work at the same place, and on our first day there was this guy there who was really nice to me. We got on really well and I really liked him and it seemed he felt the same way about me. Anyway I told my cousin some of the things I had talked about with this guy, and all of a sudden she wanted to speak to him too, even though she knew I liked him. Then she started talking to him more and more and so I thought forget that and was quite angry at him more than my cousin. But now I know that she was trying to create a wedge between us and I can't really get over that, because she was so smug about it all. When she left work suddenly he was back into me and we got on well again. He told me he liked me, but I didn't feel the same way about him and we're just taking things slow now and trying to rebuild our relationship. But now I don't know what to do about my cousin, I havn't spoken to her since and I can't beleive she was treating this whole thing like some sort of competition.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): it sounds like your cousin wants what you got which obviously means she must look up to you if she wants to be like you. Don't fall out with her if your ok with the guy, why not sit down with her and ask her why she did it then you could have some closure
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