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anonymous
writes:I love him but sometimes he speaks to me like crap and he can be really inpatient with my kids. i have 3 kids two teens one 4 im 36 hes 28 we have been together almost 9 months and he lives with me.He has got drunk in the past and gets really moody. I cant win sometimes. We have almost split up a few times, i know he loves me too but sometimes he wants to lead a separate life and then doesnt like it if i want to do something. I have had many a failed relationship in the past but this is the toughest one yet and it has altered my life. Is this a healthy relationship? Am i being too weak? hes read my text messages before. He says im allsorts, i am starting to believe him. I get very self concious about myself sometimes Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): I sympathise with you,but how difficult are your teens?? Cause me and my current partner had lots of problems when we first got together,he always said they should "never speak to there mother like that" and he made me realise how out of order mine were,and how much they took liberties.Since I've been with him even though the first 10 months were hard,i've realised everything he said was actually for my good,even though I crucified him because i thought he was having a personal dig.Good luck - with teenagers at home you'll need it
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reader, susank  +, writes (12 May 2007):
Run as fast as you can. Do you see you probably have a bad pattern of picking the wrong men? You brought these children into the world and they should be your first priority. The man that you pick will teach your children how to act in their own relationships ( good and bad) It is your job to protect them. They will grow up resenting you for not being strong enough to stand up for yourself and exposing them to this worthless, drunk, freeloading piece of crap. There are alot of men out there like that. You will only attract them if you self esteem is very low and you give them the impression they can stomp all over you. Be strong kick him to the curb, protect your kids and if you need help doing it out of fear there are plenty of resources. Men can't get away with that in this day and age. Good luck
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