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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Does a bruise on my boyfriend's stomach mean he is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend came home with a noticeable bruise to the right of his belly button last night and this concerns me. We have had rough sex many times but not recently. I asked him where he got it and he said he has no idea and just noticed it himself ...

What do I do? Don't want to split up. Yet also don't want a Bf who behaves like a cheater 2.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - hiya everyone me and my fiance have been together for 3 years. A few month ago he started to add women on facebook the women he added were the type of women he said he would like as a girlfriend. I asked him why he was adding them (he hardly uses ...

Is it possible for men to move on so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I was in a relationship with a guy for one year. We had a great relationship until September this year then we started to argue because his behaviour changed towards me and I also fell out with my best friend because I ...

He is clearly lying, but why does he keep doing this? I don't know why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

29 December 2016 (F) - I'm so confused!! I was friends with my ex for 3 years and seeing him the last year. The break up was bad as I accused him of seeing someone. He repeatedly denied it but he had lied to me a couple of times previously (just white lies he said...

Why has my Boyfriend changed his sexual style to a more conservative one, to the style he favoured previously? Could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - Hello friends. I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. We have always had a good time experimenting with each other sexually. We have a good bond and have connected from the get go. And we have also had stellar chemistry and a gr...

I can't walk away from my married guy but I can't handle the situation either

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

26 December 2016 (F) - I need help to deal with this situation without judgement please. I am having a relationship with my pastor. Well most would say affair but it is more than that to me. I'm 26 and a single Mum and he helped me so much and my wee girl. I ended up ...

Are my reasons for not trusting her valid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

24 December 2016 (M) - I don't know if I should stay in my relationship. At times it is excellent she can be thoughtful, giving, and highly sexually charged and also will spend a great deal of time just making sure I'm okay, but I find it very hard to trust her she has a ...

Is it a good idea to let a guy know you are a cheater?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

22 December 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid,I am a firm believer if you do something to somebody it is right to return what has been done to you.I was in a relationship with this guy for years a little over some years.He would cheat,lie,and make babies on me. I would look past it ...

How could she have a three year sexual affair with this guy, and still have sex with me??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

22 December 2016 (M) - I recently discovered that my wife has been having a sexual affair with a single friend of ours for the past three years, usually when I was at work.... he is single and has had girlfriends in this three year period..She knew this because he came ...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

My boyfriend can't control his intake of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - Ok so I have been seen this guys for almost 4 years now. On and off at first (we broke up 4 times and both went looking somewhere else. But would still kept in contact and talk about who we have been sleeping with, then have sex together. Unless one ...

Can't get over his cheating on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

16 December 2016 (F) - A relationship of a year ended at the beginning of June. I talked to him before we parted way and felt like I got the closure that I needed. I got over it quite quickly and starting seeing other people. It only just so happens that I ended up on ...

Should I trust this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

16 December 2016 (M) - I had an emotional affair with him and he left his wife and adult kids for me and mine. Which at first felt great. But then suddenly he lied to me saying he was going away for the weekend for Manchester, UK with his sons to try and get them on his ...

Is my boyfriend lying and cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

15 December 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship now with a man 15 years my junior for 11 years now and with every new year looming I start to question my future with him. I run my own business, am captain of the local golf club, have great friends and two daughters ...

Two different guys flirted with me before I found out they had girlfriends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - In the past two months, ive spoken to these guys (totally separate) and we have gotten on well. We spoke a lot and the first guy was constantly messaging and snapchatting me. Was going really well, both of us flirting a little bit then suddenly he...

Boyfriend bought me a chastity belt and expects me to wear it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - I have been with my bf for 6 months now. last week we were out, i was sitting at this table and a bloke came over and we were just chatting but my bf was like super mad and he hates me to chat to any guy. He is such a control freek that way. but i ...

I accidentally (kind of) catfished a guy I was interested in?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - I was interested in guy who worked the same company as mine..We worked in completely unrelated departments( very minimal work related contact).However, we would to run into each other ,walking in and out in the conference rooms,hall ways,staff rooms ...

Is it off-limits for a husband to sneak around with wife's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2893 days ago

10 December 2016 (F) - Is it off limits for husband to sneak around with wife's best friend. Then you find out 21years later about it. Wife's b.f. Was told by the other bf about it when she was drinking ? They played naked in her pool ,while they knew where wife was. ...

Love-bombing. How long does it last? Will he replicate his love bombing actions in any future relationships ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2894 days ago

10 December 2016 (M) - How long does love-bombing by a narcissist last for? My dad is a narcissist (I believe) and he cheated and left my mother for a younger woman. I've heard that there are three stages of a relationship with a narcissist - 1. 'love-bombing', 2....

Is it time to leave this relationship? I'm starting to feel like a roommate or a good friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - 29 F dating 29 M for approximately 1.5 years. My relationship has been rocky from the start. My boyfriend has always pushed the limit with flirting with girls or talking about them. Last month he texted a girl to send him pictures while o...

How do I reassure her that even though I cheated to be with her that I won't cheat on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

8 December 2016 (M) - I had an affair with a girl "Kelsey" , she was girl I worked with and was going through a hard time with her family . It started out as friends , me being there for her when she needed someone to lean on. I was in a 5 year relationship with my ex. ...

What do you do when your partner out of nowhere suddenly says that they don't love you anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

8 December 2016 (M) - What do you do when your partner of 12 years (wife for 2 1/2) suddenly tells you out of the blue she no longer loves, feels attracted to you and knows without any doubt this is how she feels? I busted her whilst she was on a night out texting some...

I know I should end things but I can't imagine him not being in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - I've been in a relationship with someone for almost 14 years. We became engaged in 2014. There are so many problems with this relationship it is impossible to list. Starting with alcoholism (him), cheating (him), lies (him), etc. I am no angel but ...

Was 'going to the dentist' just a cover story? Was he ever 'seeing the dentist' ? Does the evidence suggest my husband is cheating?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

7 December 2016 (F) - Here is an interesting question and it involves speculation and coming up with possible explanations. I am hoping to see how people think and what conclusions they can draw from this situation. It is something different from the usual. Might be ...

How can I stop worrying that he will betray me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - Hi, Thanks in advanced for any help. I'll try and make this brief. Basically I have a partner who I absolutely adore and love and I believe whole heartedly he loves me too. He tells all his work mates about me and i really feel like he adores...

I'm hoping he's bi, because he could be my soulmate! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

6 December 2016 (M) - Okay so I posted on here before about a guy, and got some good advice and insight but there's an update now. Previously I met this guy in the gym I caught him starring at me around 3 times (and his body is better than mine so not the reason) ...

How can I stop being addicted to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - How can one make love not so important? It seems that I'm always thinking about love (I'm single) and thirty 32 but ever since I can remember it's always been 90 percent of my life- I've lost jobs for men - I've gotten into arguments with my family ...

Told him to forget it - he's married. Now I've change my mind

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) - OK, an old acquaintance, we coincidentally met in a new town, and had sex for two nights. We spent the 3days hanging out together. We parted as we went back to our respective towns. He called me for a chat everyday, claiming that he missed me. O...

My relationship is really, really troubled!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

5 December 2016 (M) - hey yesterday my partner started an argument about me spending £3 on a game i knew it was a pointless argument which is why walked away i stayed in another room away from her she was adamant she was right to shout at me for this and said she was not ...

Why does my wife come home wearing different colored panties? Is she fooling around?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

5 December 2016 (M) - So I have a strange feeling that my wife may be fooling around. Whenever she goes by her GF place, she always comes home with different panties on. Am I wrong for having these thoughts that there could be something here?...

Like him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2899 days ago

3 December 2016 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a while now. It's been going really well and then he asks me on a date. However, we didn't be go on it because I found out he has a girlfriend. I've said I can't do this and we shouldn't talk. The problem is,...

I don't know whether I should take her back or not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

2 December 2016 (M) - My girlfriend is in the us at college and I'm in the uk working, we are both British and 18 and have been together for a year. She met a friend at college very soon at August time (let's call him Jim) and he was just a friend, she told me this...