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writes:I've been talking to this guy for a while now. It's been going really well and then he asks me on a date. However, we didn't be go on it because I found out he has a girlfriend. I've said I can't do this and we shouldn't talk. The problem is, I really like him. So I want to talk to him. He's been messaging me lately and he seems full of compliments, telling me I'm pretty and everything. He shouldn't be doing that? I know I should leave him well alone but I really like him :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 December 2016):
 Block him from being able to contact you. You really like him? Enough to break someones heart? I am sure you are not the only one he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend with, have more respect for yourself and stop talking to him.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (5 December 2016):
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reader, Roboaxe  +, writes (5 December 2016):
 Pursue it if you want to be the next girl he does this too. So I'd say it isn't worth it.
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reader, N91 +, writes (4 December 2016):
 Don't even entertain it. This guy is willing to cheat on his girlfriend for you. What does that tell you about his character?
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reader, Flabby Thighs +, writes (3 December 2016):
Dont go there! Honestly, honestly, honestly don't do it. Be strong and the bigger person. Bin him off and find someone trustworthy.If he was decent he would break it off with his girlfriend before dating anyone else.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (3 December 2016):
 No, he shouldn't be doing that, but he is, which means he's happy to cheat on his girlfriend.... would you really want to be his next one?
If you continue talking to him, you'll be either his mistress (emotional cheating counts too) or you'll be his next girlfriend, whom he'll probably cheat on too.
I know you like him, but you can't get everything you want and this is one you need to do the right thing on - cut all contact with him for good.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (3 December 2016):
 Tell him you will consider more with him when he finishes with his current girlfriend.
Then log him off.
YOU wouldn't want to find out some other woman had been chatting up your boyfriend behind your back would you?
So you like him. That doesn't mean you can act improperly. People's feelings are at stake here.
And as for him - well he doesn't sound very trustworthy. Are you sure you want to change places with the girlfriend? He seems deceitful to me.
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