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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I want to avoid my friend's husband, because I can't help feeling lustful around him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I think I have fallen for my friend's husband which I know is really dodgy. I have been with my other half for 12 years now and it really hit home last night when we went to a party that they were holding. He is a generally friendly guy and likes ...

Should I tell my fiancee what a slut I've been over the past few months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - Ok so I feel like a total slut even asking this question but my guilt is tearing me apart....I have been with my fiance for almost two years and we are getting married next year...The last few months I have been cheating on him..six different times ...

Left my husband to be with my lover... Now my lover has moved on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7049 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I am in need of some advice before I become totally consumed by my problem. I have been married for 18 years, the past five I have been having an affair with a single man. I loved him deeply and still do. Late last year I started to become really f...

Can't get the thoughts of my affair out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7052 days ago

31 August 2005 (?) - I still love this married man. After 2 1/2 months after the affair finished. He was my cousin's son. I'm trying to get on with my life, but every day I can't get the thoughts of him out of my head. I'm still with the partner I was with when I had th...

Do I tell him about my finished affair, and risk losing his love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 yr old girl. I wrote an anonymous question about an affair I had on my partner of 5 yrs. I'd like to thank the people who answered my question; it gave me a wake up call. The advice was fantastic but now I have another issue! I ha...

I regret cheating on my boyfriend, but I just can't say "No"...

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 and in a five year relationship with the best guy in the world. But recently I have been messing around with one guy I have become very attached to. It's been happening a few months. I love my boyfriend and am very happy in my ...

She's never given me reason to think she'd cheat... so why am I so worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7028 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. She has had to leave the city for 6 weeks for a course that she is doing and I am worried. She is living in a big house with lots of others (guys and girls)and although she has never ch...

A mystery woman is sending texts to my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7037 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - My husband left his mobile at home while at work and a text message came through. I opened it in case it was urgent and found that it was someone asking him to call back. On looking at his other messages I found four more from the same number, ...

Being with my old boyfriend makes me feel "old", but his cousin makes me feel like I'm in high school again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - I'm 24 years old, and have a daughter of 4 years. I've been in a secure relationship for the past 3 years. I love my boyfriend(*Peter), we live together and my daughter knows him as her father. We also have dogs, so needless to say, I don't want to ...

My boyfriend's one-night-stand is making me doubt whether I love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7059 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, but had a one night stand 3 days ago (the first and only). I am doubting whether I love my partner now, in fact I know I don't. I know that the one nighter will always be just that. But I don't know what to ...

Engaged to be married to my high school sweetheart, but still attracted to the guy I cheated with...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7060 days ago

23 August 2005 (F) - I'm 20 engaged to my first love, my high school boyfriend. We have been together 5yrs and it's wonderful. But the past few months I have found myself torn between him and another guy who I have cheated with, and have deep feelings for. I want to be ...

My boyfriend cheated, and now she's pregnant. How can I deal with this?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

20 August 2005 (F) - I am desperately in love with my boyfriend of 4 months. I thought we would be together forever. But I just found out he cheated about 2 months ago, in a drunken one-night stand with an ex. I never suspected a thing, even though I knew they had ...

I cheated once... then I told my boyfriend about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7065 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - I cheated. Let's say 'N' is my boyfriend and 'S' is the one I cheated with. S is this guy who I used to be friends w/ benefits with. I started going out with N and that ended. S came over one day and we ended up having sex. I'm not sure why...

Thought my friend was an internet dating freak... But now I am cheating with her web lover!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7065 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - Ok, well this is kind of hard, but here goes... Around March, one of my really good friends found a boyfriend on the internet. He lives in Norway and we're both in the UK, so she's never met him. At first I was skeptical about him, because she h...

Am I cheating on my girlfriend it it's with another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

18 August 2005 (M) - I'm been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a while and I have also been doing sexual thing with a guy and I dont know if that is cheating on her if it is with a guy???...

Cheated with my husband's brother, but he's acting like it was all my doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7069 days ago

14 August 2005 (?) - I'm with a partner of 14 years. I had an affair before but ended it. My partner forgave me. The thing is, I've always been a bit friendly with my partner's brother in law. Well we met up at a family party and he thought it would be a good idea to ...

His lover from 8 years ago is back and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7069 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I discovered, whilst on holiday earlier this week, that my husband has been seeing another woman (the same one resurrected from a previous affair of over 8 years ago). I found out because I was checking his mobile for a message from m...

Hate myself for cheating in my relationships! So how do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - I have a really bad reputation for cheating- I've cheated on pretty much every guy I've been with since I was about twelve. Usually it's just kisses but a couple of times I gave oral sex to guys who weren't my boyfriend, even when there was nothing ...

Just when I'm ready to leave, he comes back and persuades me to stay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7069 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid; I've been involved with a married father of two for over two years. He is now seperated and has custody of the kids. We've had a very off/on relationship (at his choice). It runs in cycles. Just when I begin to move on in my li...

My boyfriend is shopping for another girl online... while we're still together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7070 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been spending a lot of time on the local chat lines. He has also been on the internet and has an add running in all the online personals. He has never been an affectionate person,but in his ...

Except for the lying and the cheating, our relationship would be perfect...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

7 August 2005 (F) - I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of almost three years cheated on me for the second time. I literally had to force the answer out of him even though I had asked him many times before. He has been lying to me for months. We are still to...

Need advice on my unaffectionate, cheating, Internet girlfriend... What to do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

5 August 2005 (M) - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for the past 7 months. We have struggled to keep are relationship alive due to third parties who keep trying to destroy are relationship. Basically, she has met a lad off the net, she told me she might have feeli...

He's been playing up in chatrooms and by text, so I beat him at his own game!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

5 August 2005 (F) - I've caught my boyfriend cheating red handed. What should I do? I have been with my boyfriend now for just over two years. We live long distance (abut 2 hours away) and there is a 13 years age gap between us. That never bothered me or him well h...

I'm interested in someone else, but I don't want to risk what I have with my current boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend now for over 5 years. We are very settled and live together and have pets. We get along well enough - the spark is definely gone and we constantly have little fights, but overall we're pr...

We've had problems for a while. Why did my boyfriend cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7080 days ago

3 August 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old, and pregnant with my second child, due January 2006. I have a 3 year old little girl. My children will have different fathers. The father of my second child has taken on role of my little girl's dad. We were and family til he c...

My boyfriend found out that I cheated and I hate myself for what I've done...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - Heya, I really need some advice on saving my relationship. I stupidly cheated on my boyfriend and got pregnant, altho I convinced myself it was my boyfriend's, I couldn't be 100% sure. Since we had only been together 6 months and I'm a student, m...