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writes: I still love this married man. After 2 1/2 months after the affair finished. He was my cousin's son.I'm trying to get on with my life, but every day I can't get the thoughts of him out of my head. I'm still with the partner I was with when I had the affair.I confessed to him. He didn't seem to bothered and forgave me. I'm thinking he just what me to stay with him for convenience. Like his wife has she forgave him. Not because she loves him, only she told him she wants her own space, but he still stays, I was the one who finished it all and I wish I hadn't.I tried contacting him but no response.
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reader, pops +, writes (1 September 2005):
Of course you think about him. The same problems you have with your current partner that existed when you started the affair continue to exist. But, its over. How about trying to talk to your bf about what is was that your lover did for you that you are not getting from him? And work a lot harder on this relationship. Obviously, there must be some other reasons why the two of you stay together than inertia.
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