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writes: I'm been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a while and I have also been doing sexual thing with a guy and I dont know if that is cheating on her if it is with a guy??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007): it does not matter wether its a male or female u r still cheating maybee u need to take time out of a relationship and find what you realy want to be honest you prob r not gay n just curious depending on your age you may jst be at an experemental age but on the other hand do you love your girlfriend or do you feel love for this other guy be glad to hear from u soon ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): HEY I THINK ITS KINDA CHEATING BECAUSE YOUR DOING STUFF WITH ANOTHER PERSON DOES NOT MATTER THE SEX YOUR STILL CHEATING
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reader, doomed_in_mb +, writes (18 August 2005):
Personally i don't think it matters what sex you are doing sexual things with, it's still cheating. You should sit your girlfriend down and tell her what you have been doing. Honesty is the best policy right? Anyways... good luck with whatever you decide to do.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (18 August 2005):
 Cheating on your partner is generally considered to mean that you show romantic affection to someone else besides your boyfriend/girlfriend. It's not limited to one sex, and it can be anything, from obvious flirting, to kissing, right up to sex with someone. The third person's sex isn't a consideration.
So, yes, you're cheating on your girlfriend, and I think she'd be pretty devastated if she found out that it was with a guy.
Maybe you should admit to her that you're a little unsure of your sexual orientation just yet and give the two of you a while to date other people.
Meanwhile, as a young man who appears to be easy for guys to seduce, you're likely to be in high demand for gay liaisons, so please look out for yourself and take more care about when and with whom you have sex. Remember that you can always say No. Anyone who doesn't respect that from you is NOT your friend.
You sound kind of young to be sexually active, particularly with both men and women, and not only could you be getting into some serious relationship heartaches, you could be in very sincere danger of contracting a sexually-transmitted infection. From now on, please-PLEASE ensure that you never have sex with anyone without a condom. If you get an infection such as Hepatitis or HIV from your guy, you could pass that straight along to your girlfriend!
Take care!
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