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Big Questions: Help and advice

What's it like dating someone with a young child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

30 May 2019 (F) - I'm currently seeing (nothing official yet) a guy who has a young kid, 3 years old. I never really wanted any kids of my own but I am really starting to fall for this guy and I think he feels the same way. I'm not good with kids, not because I don't ...

Thought she was my friend, is it me or has she changed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

30 May 2019 (M) - I’m not sure where to start as I’m in complete shock at the moment. a while ago I joined a dating site to find myself a girlfriend as I’ve been single for nearly a year. came across a female who I liked and seem to get on well with each other. it ...

Why do men stare and smile but never acknowledge

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

29 May 2019 (F) - Why is it that some men stare but never speak? I work with a lot of men at a fairly large grocery chain. I was doing my grocery shopping one night after work and smiled almost instinctively at an extremely attractive man. Later that night I ran...

Seeing my ex at works makes it hard for me to make a decision about my job future. Do I follow my heart or my head?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

29 May 2019 (F) - I've posted on here a few times about a relationship I had with my colleague that went south to say the least! We currently only speak with each other about work (barely even that). I basically see him and see red! I didn't behave well after the ...

Can two women have professional chemistry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

27 May 2019 (F) - This is party a follow up question. I made a post a couple of weeks ago about a female client who I thought was flirting with me. I’m rubbish at working this stuff out so needed advice! I’ve just announced that I’m leaving my job so I called h...

Something is not right in this relationship with my older boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

25 May 2019 (F) - Hi aunt's. I recently came back from a 3 month vacation and have been indoors and kind of claustrophobic. I live with my current bf and we've been together for a little over a year now. I saw him dressing up today and asked him where he was going ...

My boyfriend does not reply to me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - At the beginning of the relationship, we would always talk to each other message each other constantly. Until he stopped talking to me a lot. He asked me awhile back to always reply to him when I came online- so I did. Eventually he started ...

Toxic mother relationship during pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - Ever since I was a child I have been blamed for everything that as gone wrong in my mothers life. Labelled a difficult child, spoilt, etc. Blamed for the break down of her marriage, (even though domestic violence and my fathers infidelity was a ...

One date later, should I pursue this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

19 May 2019 (M) - I have been internet dating for a little while now and have had 4 dates. The last was a woman from Canada who is visiting over here for a month. She contacted me and explained she was travelling but we chatted a little online and we went for a dr...

I have doubts about my fiance.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2014 days ago

19 May 2019 (F) - Hi, I’m not sure about if I should be with my fiancé or not. I feel because I ask the question that it should be the obvious answer. But I don’t know if my expectations are just wrong. I’ve been with him for 10 years, we have a house together. ...

My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of ...

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health is...

My boyfriend is very casual about his daughters' privacy and I find it very very odd

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy who's super awesome. We're both single parents of two girls each. They stay the night frequently. My girls are 9 and 13, his are 9 and 11. Despite having lived in an all girl house for the last 5 years or so, my daughters and ...

Is it ok to have sex with my aunt who's now divorced from my uncle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

16 May 2019 (M) - My non-biological aunt and I are considering a sexual relationship. She divorced my uncle about 8 months ago and got completely cut off from my family until I messaged her. We have gone on a few "dates" and been sexual but only with our hands (i.e. ...

Passing ships in the night but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

16 May 2019 (F) - Help. I don't think I'm gonna hear from this guy again. I really fell for this lad on my adult training course. He's a bit younger than myself, but we sat together and flirted a lot and even caught each other staring at each other from time to time, ...

Do we change our views in regards to relationships as we get older?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

16 May 2019 (F) - Silly question maybe but in terms of how you are as a person do we change all that much from the ages of twenty to forty when it comes to how we view relationships? My partner says he didn't know what love was, had nothing to compare it to, looks ...

My husband wants "space", is shutting down all communication with me, is cold, rude and distant and spends a lot of time with people at work.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

14 May 2019 (F) - For the past few months, my husband has been spending more and more time hanging out with his colleagues and bosses (male) late at night. Work has been getting busier and he's trying really hard to impress his bosses, as he was placed in charge on a ...

I'm afraid I will be alone, I've screwed up my life and personality and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

13 May 2019 (M) - I've lived a life of a quiet, lonely loner. It was an act of convincing myself I was better off alone and could not feel lonely. Eventually, any semblance of loneliness I had was simply masked by complacency. This turned me into believing that I...

How do I deal with an old, terminally ill dog who's pooping all around the house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

12 May 2019 (F) - Sorry if this is not the typical question for this site but I need advice. I have an 11 year old dog. I have had him since 8 weeks old. Recently he's been falling over a lot on walks and not picking his feet up properly so his nails would bleed. ...

How do you deal with getting older and society treating you like you are invisible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

11 May 2019 (F) - Just looking for a little advice on how to deal with getting older as anwoman and losing looks and it seems visibility in society . Some seem to say enjoy the invisibility but I find it heartbreaking when I’m basically ignored say in a store for a ...

I know I should just walk away .... but I love him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - Hi I wonder if anyone can help me.. So I have been with my boyfriend for just over 3years and also he's an overthinker and recently he was feeling a little depressed. I supported him and was going out of my way to be there all the time .. he was m...

Why would a married man who I barely know tell me that he's in love with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - Around 5 years ago, I was selected to attend an academic programme in another country. Upon reaching there, I met a guy from my country who was also a participant and we hit it off. There was nothing even remotely romantic... He was married and I ...

Is my FWB starting to get feelings for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - My friend with benefits knows i like him more than what we have we talked about things a while back he said he doesnt feel the same way but at the weekend we did a lot more than usual and he made a point of wanting to hold my hand and wanted to keep ...

My step children's mother is still creating problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2027 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - Hello - just wanted to know whether we are being selfish. I have a child who is 2 and 2 stepchildren who are gorgeous. My husband had to go to court to see the children and we have a very unreasonable ex. The children aren’t allowed to see a...

Why am I only drawn into these inappropriate, wrong relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - Why am I always drawn to taboo, inappropriate or wrong kind of relationship?? Ok here is a little detail about myself. I grew up a bit of a wallflower - no confidence at school, never pushy or good with hair and makeup and so was always the l...

HOW can I salvage the rest of my life so I don't feel so depressed and like such a failure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2026 days ago

7 May 2019 (F) - When I was very young my mother left my brother and I with my grandmother to take care of us because she wasn't happy with her life so she immigrated to this country. When I was 13 she brought all 3 of us over(also made my grandma sell her house ...

How do I tell my girlfriend her bed isn't comfortable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

4 May 2019 (M) - I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a few months. So far everything has gone great. The problem I have is that I think her bed is super uncomfortable. Her mattress is a 3 inch thick piece of foam. Her blanket is 4 or 5 layers of thin blankets that ...

How do I stop feeling down about an unrequited love situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

2 May 2019 (F) - How do I stop feeling down about an unrequited love situation? I foolishly let myself fall for a young guy who was pretty much unavailable due to age, background, personal circumstances etc. I knew deep down there was no future in it, but I felt h...

Should I make him my friend with benefits

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

1 May 2019 (F) - So I met a guy about 14 years ago and was instantly attracted to him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had just got into a new relationship too. I’m not going to lie there was one or 2 nights we hooked up and did things we shouldn’t of ...