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writes:My non-biological aunt and I are considering a sexual relationship. She divorced my uncle about 8 months ago and got completely cut off from my family until I messaged her. We have gone on a few "dates" and been sexual but only with our hands (i.e. Handjob and fingering). We both want to have vagina sex but need a second opinion. What should we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2019): Bad idea... really bad.. find some else!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2019): Sorry, OP, but not only do I think it's in poor taste but it's also desperate. On both your parts. How old is this ex aunt? It's obvious she's messed up after the divorce and is looking for a distraction. You, on the other hand, should be the one to keep a level head and not take advantage!! We CAN control our urges as adults. This has trouble written all over it.
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reader, ConfusedCarrie84 +, writes (17 May 2019):
My head screams NO NO NO NO NO. What are you thinking? This will not end well, trust me. She may not be married to your uncle anymore but that doesn't mean they will accept her into the family because she is now having sex with her nephew (By marriage).
Are you able to cope with the chances of being disowned by your family? Where do you see this relationship going? Marriage? Children?
The dymanics of this relationship will ripple through the family and I doubt it will be easy for both of you.
legally no crime has been committed but morally, that's a different issue.
Think carefull, have long mature conversations on where this could go and what you are will to sacrifice over it. If you've done all that and still decided to stay together then so be it.
I widh you the best of luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 May 2019):
 I'm with Code Warrior,
What good id going to come of this? It's not like your family is going to welcome her with open arms because you are now "dating" her.
"This is a monumentally stupid idea." AMEN to that.
You do know that HALF the world's population is female right? And all you can go after is your UNCLE's STBX? Seriously?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2019): You guys are old enough to know what you are doing. As long as you don't go telling it to everybody in the family and be discreet as f.buddies I don't see any harm coming to anyone. Just don't call her your aunt. Call her your uncle's ex.
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reader, Billy Bathgate +, writes (17 May 2019):
This is going to make things terribly complicated come the next family gathering but you’re both adults and there is nothing legally wrong with what you’re doing. Just keep in mind that your uncle and other members of your family probably won’t take this well. So be prepared for backlash if they find out. But if you can keep it on the downlow enjoy.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (17 May 2019):
 Don't be an idiot, OP. This is a stupid idea and she's just reeling from the divorce, wanting to get revenge. What better revenge than sleeping with her nephew?You'll probably do it anyway, if this isn't some fantasy you've cooked up, but you could permanently damage your relationship with the rest of your family.Please, OP, don't let lust rule you. Find a single woman who is NOT in any way, shape or form related to your family, even non-biologically. You're old enough to know better than to do this.
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