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Archived questions from: March, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why my brother is giving me silent treatment ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

29 March 2018 (F) - I am sorry ..i know this is a forum where people only discuss about their love problems. I have been a part of this forum for a long time..My issue is related to my family so i decided to share it here only.I don't know whether i am allowed to do ...

I feel like I am being pressured into having sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

29 March 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years now, at first we were having sex all the time whenever possible, as it usually is when youre with someone new. Now it has calmed down a bit and I am completely okay with that but he is not. Its ...

Am I right to not trust him? Can a marriage survive on no trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2427 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - I've been married for 12 years, have 2 beauitful children. Recently found out that a woman my husband works with has a crush on him. They've worked together for 18 months but I was led to believe that they just worked for the same company, in...

Should I accept a screen role with nudity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - Hi uncle and aunties. I need some advice. I am an aspiring actress who is still in the middle of completing my bachelors degree at uni. I have done occasional work in TV commercials when I was a child growing up in my home country. I have also acted ...

We're almost breaking up over the question of having kids in the future but am I being irrational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2434 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - Sorry this is rather long... I started dating a man 10 years older than me last year. We are serious going now and eventually the subject of children had to come up and it did. Before, it was something that was mentioned by both and brushed of...

I would like a fresh perspective, as if there is something I could be doing that would make things better I would do it, or I’m doing something that I shouldn’t be then I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - Please note this is a long read: I’m after some none biased honest feedback/comments regarding my relationship with my boyfriend of just over a year. We have a strong connection and when we have fun, we really do - we’re silly together, and a...

Has any of you ever had a pause in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - Has any of you ever had a pause in life? Like a decade long pause? What does one do? It's not something I planned, it just sort of happened. I moved with my husband to a foreign country when I was about 30 (had to) and in a blink of an eye I t...

Am I crazy for wanting to blow up my marriage and the last 20 years for my first love from 30 years ago?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2437 days ago

24 March 2018 (F) - I arrived at this site searching on line for "I'm still in love with my boyfriend from 30 years ago", (sigh). I read a really good post, similar to my issue, but in many other ways not similar. My college BF - we will call him "T" - definitely my ...

How can I deal with this drama at work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - How can I deal with this drama at work? I have been at my job for a year now (big corporation) office type of environment - really Quiet I work in HR. We sit in cubicles and the people areoinf me (two male coworkers) are VERY noisy. We had a ...

My husband is too stressed for sex but not too stressed for porn.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - my husband (together total of 5 years) and I have sex maybe once a month. He says it's because stress of work that hes tired etc - he does have a stressful job working for himself and working long hours. But he masturbates 1-3 times a day to p...

I like travel, he likes fast food and designer luxury products! Is there room for compromise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - I love to travel and see the world. I love experiencing different cultures and tasting different foods. I'm not a fan of designer luxury products, I just like to travel. My boyfriend doesn't like traveling or seeing the world. He can eat McDonald...

I think my girlfriend is too promiscuous to me. Break up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

22 March 2018 (M) - Dating for a few months I'm 30 she's 22, yesterday I found out a lot of pictures of her with her ex on her facebook from a few years ago. I asked her why she keeps them and she said she forgot to delete and that doesn't make any sense since they're ...

I have a luncheon with my husband's colleagues and I'm worried about making a good impression!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

22 March 2018 (F) - I'm going to a luncheon tomorrow with colleagues and clients of my husband's. They are all very intelligent and I am nervous about attending. I want to make my husband proud and not embarass him or not be intelligent enough in their company. I am ...

I’m having mother-in-law and financial problems, am I doing the right things to deal with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

22 March 2018 (F) - Hi everyone.. i need some opinion on what happened right now. I need advice and opinon as much as possible as people has various personal opinion which i need right now. Currently 3 months pregnant and this pregnancy brings changes a lot fo...

Can you love someone and stay safe if they have an issue with truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - With same guy for 5 years and he has a history of always underestimating his financial matters (tells me he owes less than he does on cards, etc.). I have a nice nestegg I've built by working my whole life and saving. I'm a few years from retirement ...

My husband had an affair and now I can't sleep with him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: two questions combined into one Hi everyone. I've been married for nearly 6 years. We have a three year old son. Last year my husband and I had some issues where I focussed too much on one my hobbies and spent less time with him. He t...

I'm feeling under pressure and trapped.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

20 March 2018 (M) - Hi all, I have an issue really bugging me at the moment and beginning to stress me out. I'll give a little bit of backstory: I'm 26 years old, recently gotten together with my first ever GF and everything was going swimmingly and I was very ...

How would a cheater act if he were cheating on you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi please can people give me some idea of how someone would act around you if they were cheating on you I have been with my fiancé now for 6 years we have a 3 year old daughter we’ve been having sleep issues with our 3 year old daughter so my ...

Is he just a long distance loser who uses his family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - I write this post with a heavy heart. I don't even know where to begin..... My boyfriend has had a very bad past. He has chosen to do many things to disappoint his parents, siblings, and other family members. He went to College, is educated, ye...

My pregnant wife swears and breaks things when angry, sometimes I think I'd rather raise the baby as a single dad.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2339 days ago

18 March 2018 (M) - She is 36 weeks pregnant. I've been night shift all week and sleeping during the day. I have university 2 days per week and I will go straight from work to a half day of uni. Return home about 4pm and sleep until 10pm then go to work. I'm full ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I'll get straight to the point. My best friend and I (I'm female, he's male) have a 'friends with benefits' kind of thing going on. We are intimate, sometimes affectionate, but never romantic. We have never dated, but despite clearly not being a ...

I've borrowed money to celebrate but am not excited about it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

17 March 2018 (M) - About to celebrate our 5year together but why do I feel like I’m not celebrating anything. We don’t live together as she still works in the same part time job she did when I got with her so we have not progressed. I lost my job 3 months ago, and I ...

Do you consider girl on girl action cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship for almost 3 years now. My boyfriend is out of the country most of the time. We are apart for months. I love him and I have never had sex wit another man nor have I ever kissed someone else. I haven't even flirted with another ...

I'm 25 my girlfriend is 67, its time we went public with the Age Gap.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

17 March 2018 (M) - This question is about being true to myself in front of my family and friends. I seem like a normal 25 year old guy. I graduated from college 3 years ago. I have a good job. I don't smoke. Don't drink. I go to church when I can. On occasion, I date ...

Older man is now divorced and has guessed my child is also his!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - Can the Aunts and Uncles help me please I meet a older man 6 years ago who told me he was separated but was actually still married. When I found this out I ended it and was heartbroken. He had had a older daughter my age from a separate ...

She has cut me completely after our families learnt of our same sex affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - Hello I fell in love with my same gender best friend of 4 years, we are both married to our husbands with children, had an emotional affair that turned physical for 2 months. We ended the affair but still work in the same building. She has cut me ...

My boyfriend doesn't approve of my modeling career!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - My partner and I live together, we had an argument last night. He is 25 and I’m 23, I am pursuing a modeling career that is just taking off but he doesn’t approve the photoshoots; last week it was because the photographers are men and he feels ...

I wonder if my boyfriend is losing interest in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Hey guys! Need some real advice on this matter. I started dating a guy about 7 weeks ago. I met him last year at random and we would just check in from time to time. One day he asked me out for ice cream and the rest is history.. Anyway, I no...

I want a more reciprocal relationship in the future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2439 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question - or as if I am slightly crazy - but I'm increasingly realising that I attract people who I am certain are on the autism spectrum and I want to know how, if at all, I can avoid this happening in future. ...

Why did my manager belittle me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Recently at work I accidentally dropped a plastic container, it made a loud noise ad people were startled. It was an accident! One of my managers, (a woman of 58 who Ive been working with for years, and am very careful around, as she's very p...

I feel like a dirty secret

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - I have been involved with a guy who was originally an affair who i left an an abusive relationship for. It hasnt been easy to say the least as we also work together. He stays at mine all the time and is with me every night, however, I just ...

My brother does not accept my older boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2448 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, So I have this new boyfriend. I have been with him for nearly 6 months now (which I know isn't a long time at all) however he is 10 years older than me and has 3 children. My family were aware of this and do not accept it at all...

Favouritism in the workplace

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2448 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - I work in a hospital. Shiftwork, rotating roster, no “set” shifts. I’ve done it for years and have not much issue with it. We are allowed 4 shift requests per fortnight. We are NOT meant to request our whole roster! Still some do.. and get a...

Bf doesn't want to come to my graduation ceremony. Is this an indicator that our relationship is not worth my while?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of one year does not want to come to my graduation ceremony, and honestly I'm pretty upset but don't know what to do. I don't want to force him, and i just dropped the subject. so I don't know what to think of our relationship if he ...

I think my lecturer doesn't like me and I'm being targetted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2449 days ago

13 March 2018 (M) - I feel like my teacher doesn't like me, is punishing or testing me. We switched groups today and has purposely put 2 very strong opinionated people who were debating the day before. The lecturer told one of the students that she put those 2 together ...

Family and friends want me to present as more "girly girl."

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

13 March 2018 (F) - I’m a girl, I’m not really girly but I don’t dress like a guy either. I just prefer to wear normal casual clothes like a crop top a bomber and nice jeans, vs heels and dresses. I don’t wear makeup, I don’t judge people that do but they seem to judge ...

Money mean son is refusing to bring his family to a family vacation.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2448 days ago

13 March 2018 (F) - My youngest son has a good job with the US Postal Service. He has a wife and a daughter. His wife is a nurse. The problem is he is really tight with his money. I think he goes overboard with being tight with his money. He has always been tigh...

I always recognise my boyfriend's birthdays but he never recognises mine.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

13 March 2018 (F) - Hello, I'm currently in a one year long distance relationship. Though I saw him a month ago for two weeks. I bought him gifts and paid for most of our lunches or dinners together. He didn't get me a gift or paid for lunch or dinner. I know I ...

I made a joke. I'm now wondering about my boyfriend's response.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

13 March 2018 (F) - I told my boyfriend to look for a girl to marry as a joke and he told me he would after tomorrow, since tomorrow is his birthday. He said he prefers a blonde chick, and i am a brunette. I feel upset that he said that. Would anyone else be?...

A co worker hates me and I want to quit.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

12 March 2018 (M) - a co worker who liked me originally, now hates me as I became friends with another co worker at work. she has stopped talking to me and just scowls me and swears under her breath if I go near her and try to talk to her or I give her an order to ...

Is this girl too good to be true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2449 days ago

12 March 2018 (M) - I’d like some advice on what to do. I’m on faceparty which is a social media thing. where you make friends, have dates and maybe have a relationship with someone special. messaged a female who caught my eye on there, things were going great until ...

Should I trust him or is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

10 March 2018 (F) - Dear cupid , I met my fiance abroad while i was on vacation in dubai , he was depolyed there we started dating and after monthes he proposed and i said yes , we used to see eachother evry month because it was easy for me to travel there , w...

Do I try to Facebook this aquaintance from my past? Or is it really awkward or inappropriate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

10 March 2018 (F) - Yesterday when cleaning.. iv found some old pics of me and my old dance teacher,he was a gay guy we got on well. I was wondering..should I friend request him on Facebook? I’m female and I was not attracted to him!! Im also gay and ...

What should I do with a badly behaved dog?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

10 March 2018 (F) - I have a bit of a problem and just wanting advice. I have a dog but I have had for 10 years since I was 20 years old I probably been through more with the dog than anyone in my life. he's always been a bit of a problem and recently I am living in a ...

I always feel like the third wheel, and wonder if I should give up trying.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - What can you do when you are the “3rd wheel” in a conversation? 2 people are talking and leaving you out? and yes you’ve tried to talk. You’ve genuinely listened and tried to be interested, and you are! But they’ve been cliquey and left...

She says her married boyfriend will get jealous if we have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

9 March 2018 (M) - I met this girl, after speaking for weeks, we met for casual sex. It was great and she seemed to be enjoying it. We were probably busy for 2-3 hours. She even asked me to whip her, first time for me but she enjoyed it. She was good and was eager to ...

Breaking up and getting back together after you have been with someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - Hello aunts I wanted to come in here and get peoples opinions on breakups and makeups. I was in a long term relationship and once we broke up - I couldn’t go back to what it was (there was a reason we broke up) I see couples getting married ...

How do you heal a wound so deep in your heart? How do you stop being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

9 March 2018 (F) - How do you forget something so hurtful as seeing your partner make love for hours to a much younger woman in her teens and that moment when you see it you have just given birth and you are not as fresh and new as her teen body and your boobs have ...

I could be in a relationship if I hadn't pushed him away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

8 March 2018 (F) - I still have feelings for someone and it has been 4 years now , I feel really odd and obsessive for still having feelings for him . we didn't speak for very long because of my behaviour as I got really worried when he told me he liked me and I ...

I worry a lot and don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

8 March 2018 (F) - I get worried quite a lot and I don't know how to deal with it or how to focus on something else . At the moment I get silly unnecessary worries that if someone doesn't reply to a text I think they don't like me , don't want to talk to me anymore ...