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*sabella1987
writes:Hi everybody. Please help me, I don't know how to decited now. I have date with him for 2 years and we just broke up for stupid reason.(he don't spend time with me). So, i got mad and i left him. He cried first day (i know because he call me) After that he become strong. We moved to his home town 2 months ago. Now, I am at my home town. I still in love with him and miss him so much. So, I just call him and talk about back together. He told me he'll become a man now. We used to agree we not going to eat pork. Now he said he'll eat pork and I have to cook for him. All my family and me don't eat pork. He use to agree that. I told him not that one I can't follow that one and he said no he want to be himself. He use to follow me and I betray his love.and he think I using him. And we agree no female friend. he said he'll working in pharmacy and he could be have female friend, but he'll introduce with me. And I told me to cook, clean the house and take care of him. And follow what he said because he is a man. I support to follow the man he said. i have to follow his rule, if I can do that he told me to comeback and if I can't he said don't comeback. I love him so much. But I don't know if I can do all those things he said. What can I do? I don't want to feel broken heart. I live with my parents now. I have no money, no job. What's gonna be happen if I go over there. he told me he still love me like before but he have to be a man and strong. He don't want to betray his love again. He said. He told me he can spend more time with me and have fun, but if he want to go alone somewhere (like his family house, anytime he want) I have to let him go and not make it problem. I don't know how to move on. I miss him so much and I'm in love with him. What can i do for get old him back.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 October 2009):
So you have to be his housewife, ignore your beliefs on pork, do everything he says... and he gets to do what he wants, have female friends and do nothing about the house???
Well it's your choice.
You can be with him and be a MISERABLE slave.... or you can tell him no, and get over him.
My advice is to get over him. Spend time with your friends, decide that you WANT to be over him, look around and try to think of someone else whenever you think of him.
Cut contact with him and find happiness being single. Then when you meet a decent man you'll have no problems
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Sorry to say...but it sounds like you just need to let go of this relationship...you two are two different and i dont see it working out! Let go and move on! Good luck!
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