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Archived questions from: 26 March, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I don't know if I am a mental person in a normal world?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - hello I really cant sleep any more my life is really so hard I am 36 years old 20 years working, I live with my memories and I do remember every thing or almost every thing that's happened in my life and I really dont know what to do any more, I a...

Am I being selfish? Sometimes I think yes but then if they are unhappily married maybe they shouldn't be together anyway???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - im having an affair with a married man from work (my boss) we have fallen in love and he say's he will leave his wife for me but i've told him not to as he should leave because he wants to, not for me as i cant promise that we will be together ...

Why do we care so much what others think of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Why do we care so much what others think of us?...

How can I stop these funny phone calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - I've been getting funny phone calls and it's really getting annoying. If I take the phone number to the police are they able to tell who it is? Thanks....

My husband has been seeing prostitutes behind my back!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi, Just found out after 30 years of marriage hubby has been using prostitutes for 4 years behind my back, I had no idea, none whatsoever and I feel such a fool, he is begging for me to stay and work this out but I feel it is so hard to forgive ...

My husband changed his mind about kids and says to wait 5 years for him to decide! What if he decides "no"?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Before my husband and I got married, we decided we didn't want to have children. Then last fall I ended up getting pregnant even though I was on birth control. We both decided we were going to keep the baby and were even pretty excited about it - ...

It's our first date alone - what can I do w/out going as far as oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi. I'm going to watch a film with my boyfriend, and it's our first date alone yet. We've got off with each other plenty of times, and I just want to know what I can do with him without going as far as oral sex. I really want some answers,...

I like his personality, but not sure I fancy him, what should I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - im 20 and this guy i work with who i have become friends with told me he fancies me. thing is i do really like him personality wise but sometimes i look at him and say "yeh i fancy him" and other times i think "theres no physical attraction", its ...

Why am I so shy all the time ? Surely now Im 20 I should have grown out of it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - i find it really hard to except compliments as im very self conscious and quite shy. whenever someone says something like (and this doesnt happen very often) u look really nice or ur really pretty, i go red and just mumble "thanks" and end up ...

He seems to think he has a right to look at his ex's mail. What do you think ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - my BF and I were at his ex's house picking up his son and she wasn't home. I felt strange going in but they both asked me to as they didn't see it as a problem. while in her house, my ex proceeded to look through her mail and stuff she had laying ...

She said lets move on, but still wont stop contacting me!? Im confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6483 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - Hi just want some advice on a relathiship with my now ex-girlfriend. I lived in Ireland and came to visit my gran while here i met a girl, she said she would like to get to know me so it would be better if i moved over here to England, i dd and when...

Is this relationship saveable ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - My girl friend says her love for me has diminished though she admits i have been a very good boy friend to her since we started the relationship about a year ago, she does not call most often as she use to, she also says she now finds another ...

I'm really not sure how far to go and how to deal with my girlfriends fear of sex!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I've been with my current GF for a few months now. When we first started dating she told me that she found sex scary and that she was a little freaked by the concept, and that she wouldn't be able to be as sexually active as I might have liked. I...

Im feeling so ill since he told me he wasnt " in Love" with me, how will I ever get over this ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - i have been seeing a fella now for six months though we do know each other many years. we are both separated and going through transitions but he now holds my heart, at the weekend he told me he loves me but not in love with me and i am ill over it. ...

Ive been raped before and sex with my partner is always painful, anything I can do to make easier ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - i never get ready to accpet my boyfriend when having sex and I am always very dry what can i do. I was raped the first time and ever since then i cant make love without any pain. Are there any drugs that would work ?...

He was making calls to an ex, could he have now changed her name in his phonebook to stop me suspecting!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - about a month ago i saw that my boyfriend had been calling an ex girlfriend. it was a few calls over about a week's time but we had an argument about it because he kept it from me and then lied about how many times they actually spoke. Anyway, I...

Should I take her back, even thought it hurts that when we split she slept with her ex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - i have been dating my gf for 3 years and before me she had an ex bf who she had sex with..she was my first by the way..we recently broke up and have been for about 3 months..during this time she was reunited with her ex bf..he got her drunk one ...

My GF is very insecure about me seeing her naked! How can I give her some confidence as I think shes fab!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - How can i help my gf to be more confident in the way she looks. She doesn't like me seeing her fully naked becuase she reckons that she doesn't look as nice as other girls, she hasn't got very big breasts and this is one of the things shes worried ...

I cant orgasm with my partner and its getting very frustrating!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - please help me! i cant cum when im with my bf. i have been with him for just over a month and we have a good sex life.. its not that i dont get turned on by him because i do! im in love with him, its just so frustrating.. when he fingers me i just ...

His kids are causing problems in our relationship, Am I being selfish !?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Please help. My relationship of 2 years is about to crash because he has children from a previous relationship. We have always argued over his children as they were very spoilt and ungrateful. Just recently we have been arguing because his children ...

When I turn 18, am I entitled to the right to care of my brother ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6486 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I really need help i am in a hard spot right now...i am 17 years old i will be 18 tuesday,and my brother is 16 years old.. Yesterday i went to pick my brother up so he can hangout with me and when i was taking him home he started crying, ...

Been together nine months and havent said I love you, or met his kids ? Is this long enough to wait ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi Im feeling quite emotional at the moment I have a bf who is great and we get on really well and enjoy spending time together our relationship was long distance at the begining but now hes closer and all together weve been going out abo...

Is kissing classed as cheating ? Should I end this relationship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - hiya im really confused and need some advice, the other day me and my boyfriend of a year n half with a child went out for the night, we were stopping in a hotel so it was an all nighter, half way throught he night we had an argument over nothing ...

I really regret the one night stand I had, but does my GF really need to know, as it would break her heart!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I'm in a long-term, long-distance relationship and I love my gf to bits. I don't drink and I came home from university and met up with some old friends. I had a few drinks, which turned into a quite a few and I slept with another woman. I feel awful ...

Im so suffocated at home, but cant afford to move out! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Recently i've been having a few problems with my parents. They constantly interfere and comment on everything i do. i can't read a book or watch television without some remark. whenever i go out, my mother wants to know exactly where i'm going and ...

I'm becoming very negative about my marriage, and feel my wife is just a taker! I owe it to myself to get out dont I!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - In the beginning, please note that this is the very first time ever that I write about my marriage or talk about it with anyone. I am 45 and she is 43 and we’ve got four marvellous children. During our 19 years of marriage and 23 years of knowing...

He has a baby by someone else, and I think shes using that just so she gets to see him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 4 months we only used to see each other once a week but now we see each other most nights and he stays over.thing is before he met me he was seeing this women,it was a drunken thing really he would just go round there ...

Im really confused, I snogged a guy while my man was away and now dont know what to do!!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - please dont judge me! ive done nothing but cry the last 2 days i feel so awful and very confused! my fella of a yr works away alot he just gone away in december to the new york he comes back in may in so excited to see him but so confused! iv...

I'm feeling really down and disheartened, where are all the nice guys!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi, I had been seeing a guy for 5 months, during this time he treated me bad, but i put up with it because it was a new relationship and i thought things would improve and we could work things out. He has recently dumped me after ignoring my texts ...

Why is it hard to accept niceness??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - Why is it hard to accept or digest for me when someone is kind or nice to me? If it so happens, i become so much desperate to get more that i try to possess the person who was being kind and end up spoiling my relation with them. Any advice? ...

What is a healthy way to get your needs met??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - When i don't get something i want, i use tricks and manipulation to get it. This is because i have never got something that i need desperately by merely expressing my needs to my parents. They would easily disregard it. What is a healthy way to get ...

I dont trust 'average' looking girls!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I found that a girl i went very close to was a liar and was cheating on me. She looked average and though i used to only trust good looking girls, i trusted her for the first time. So i made a conclusion that average looking girls are not to be ...

My housemate has a new guy, they are all over each other in front of me and its making me uncomfortable!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hey Everyone, Just got a small problem and I'll appreciate anyone's advice on the matter, if you can spare a moment or two. My housemate has recently got a boyfriend and even though he's a great guy and I enjoy his company around the house it's g...

Whenever I get intimate with my GF I start to feel sick and sometimes have to throw up! I dont know why!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out since mid june now. Whenever we lie down and kiss each other, sometime i'm touching her breasts, I start to feel sick to my stomache. This is very embarasing. Usually i just go to the bathroom, ...

Do you think I could chang my wifes mindset about sex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - My wife and I have different attitudes towards sex.... I would do it all the time, when I do it I think of it and when I don't... I think of it even more. She is more settled. We go along together, anyway. Sometimes we quarrel a bit for this, bu...