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writes:How can i help my gf to be more confident in the way she looks. She doesn't like me seeing her fully naked becuase she reckons that she doesn't look as nice as other girls, she hasn't got very big breasts and this is one of the things shes worried about. I keep telling her she's no need to be shy and cover up, i like her just the way she is and she knowsa it. I did see her naked once before when she got out the shower and she didn't realise i was ther, she now knows i've seen her bcuase i thought it would help and show her theres nothing wrong with her but shes still very shy about it all. Last week when she was getting dressed after a shower the towel slipped down and i was talking to heyr and after she pulled it back up she went very quiet as if she was scared i might think less of her. She knows i would never force her into anything, i'm, not that type of person, we've been really good friends most of our lives, shes my fist gf n im her first bf, we've always been so comfortable around each other until this. She's ok about everything else and is very open to me. What can i do to help her please help
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 March 2007):
 I think the key is to take this very slowly indeed. Every day compliment her on something. It neednt just be her body but her clothes or the way she wears her hair too. It's not apparent if you're having sex with her from your post but if you're not just try to remember every girl has anxiety about showing her body to a man for the first time and she may need to build up to it.
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