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What is a healthy way to get your needs met??

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Question - (26 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

When i don't get something i want, i use tricks and manipulation to get it. This is because i have never got something that i need desperately by merely expressing my needs to my parents. They would easily disregard it. What is a healthy way to get your needs met?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007):

Well, your'e in your thirties...better late than never. Manipulation is selfish so stop being selfish. Think of the other person and stop blaming your parents for the way you are. You're a grown man. Your needs? Think of other people and you'll find you won't want to be manipulative. The world doesn't revolve around you. My advise? Do charity work and see and feel how the other half lives. You will start giving of yourself and find out what a really decent person you are.

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (26 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

work for work to and dont use tricks thats not good

good luck

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