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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Real deal or is he blowing me off???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I am talking to a guy who is 11 yrs oldcer than me who has been divorced and has kids. He is 36 and I am 25. He seems to be a really nice guy, and has a job in law enforcement which requires him to be on-call at all times. When we first ...

Should I make the first move? Or should he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I need some help. I am in love with a close friend but I don't know what to do about it. I am a girl but I am like 4 years older than him so who should make the first move? Who should make the first move me a girl or him a guy 4 years younger ...

I made out with an older man and don't know what to think

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - I am 17 and there is this older guy who i sometimes talk to as a friend, he must be in his late 30s/early 40s. I do admit that i have had a crush on him in the past and he knows that. Yesterday I was talking to him and as I was about to go he kissed ...

How do I make this older guy stop following me around? He doesn't know me, but I know who he is. He creeps me out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi erm well theres this guys who older like in his the 30's or late 20's not really sure how old he is but really hes been following me around when ever he see's me and just stares like seriously its kinda staring to creep me out i don't ...

I'm needy...She's independent.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm in a well very unique relationship. I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 30 with 2 kids and has been married twice. We've been dating for almost 4 months now, then we moved in together after a month for monitary purposes which is working. I'm in the ...

I'm 19, he's 33 - can it work? Opinions please.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I am 19, and have only had one other relationship with a boy who was 21. He was a kind person and a good first boyfriend, but he didn't want anything serious and was more interested in going to the bars all night with his friends (somethi...

I am concerned my girlfriend of 3 months may not be enjoying my company as much as I am hers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - i am concerned my girlfriend of 3 months may not be enjoying my company as much as i am hers, i find her adorable straight speaking. a excellent mother of two.very sexy,to me anyway.we live in separate homes she with her kids, me on my own. we sta...

I flipped out on my boyfriend...He's separated, has 3 kids, and not enough time for me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - so ive been involved with my boyfriend for 9 months (hes 40 and i am 29)....i care about him so much but sometimes things are so hard.. he is separated and has three young children who always come first as i know they should. a big part of the stru...

Why ignore my messages after a heart-to-heart with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - why would she does this? to cut a extremley long story short.... i added a girl my younger bro knows at school on facebook (ther both 14) got talking, realy liked her she realy likes me (i dont fancy her (yet) i dunno how she feals about me)having a ...

My co-workers tell me this older guy is looking to settle down, and I don't know if continue whatever it is that we are because I'm not what he's looking for

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to my coworker for a good few weeks, not too long really. He's about 8 years older than me, and we talk constantly. we'll text eachother literally all day until almost 5am (not all nights). He'll always text me goodnight and all ...

If this man likes me why won't he pursue me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - If this man likes me, why won't he persue me ?. I am 27, and he is 60. Now, i know that is a huge age gap, but he seems like a really nice man, and i do like him. He has said that he would go after me if he was my age, and ke kept asking if this guy ...

My father does not like the older man I am dating!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this wonderful man for the 10 months, I'm 23 and he's 38, at first I was sceptical about the whole age thing but I couldn't help myself so we'd sneak away and meet each other at the local park or go a drive.. Anywhere as long as ...

Different religions, ages, countries, and cultures...should we even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi guys, So i'm in a bit of a pickle, I'm 31 and have fallen in love with a wonderful man...only we can't be together. I'm a 31 year old female from London whom lives in the city and I'm from a middle class Jewish family. I am educated wit...

I'm not getting any younger -- was I right to cut it off at the earliest signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

11 December 2011 (F) - I've been seeing a man who is 16 years older than me. We've known each other for about 5 months and started dating last month. He has 2 kids and twice divorced. I just told him through text that I don't think it will work out for us and want to ...

I care about him despite our distance and 13 year age difference. Should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

10 December 2011 (F) - Hi. I need objective opinions. I'm 30, and have been seeing a 43 year old never married man, I'll call Sam. It's been almost a year of dating. We don't refer to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. I've secretly dated other prospects briefly....

Been together 10 years, married for 6 1/2 yrs, we have sex 5 times a week, but I'm still a virgin because there's been no vaginal sex!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

10 December 2011 (F) - I am very in love with my husband, we have been married 6 1/2 years. There is a big age difference between him and I, I am 28, he is 48. His son is older than me, he is 30. My husband was married to his 1st wife, this might sound bad but w...

I'm falling for my best friend's older brother. Should I wait, or make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 December 2011 (F) - Hi okay I'm having an issue. My best friends older brother is 2-3 years older than us, but I'm falling for him and have secretley liked him since i met him about 3 years ago. He always talks to me and talks about how hilarious I am and stuff. I...

After 1 year we still haven't spoken of our feelings for each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 December 2011 (F) - Well he really entices me and i love him so much, but its been one year and i haven't confessed to him and neither have he.I am afraid of being rejected, for many reasons, first ...we are from different countries, second, different religion and ...

My husband left me for a younger woman. Is this Karma?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - How do I repent for all the hearts and minds that I toyed with and crushed? I never knew what it felt like to be crushed because I was always the one doing the crushing and not giving crap about how I left my victims broken and damaged. I left ...

When dating, does age really matter??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I am a 26 yr old female who is considering dating a very nice mature 37 yr old male. He is divorced with two older children and I am a mature 26 yr old looking to settle down with a mature man. I have never dated anyone more than 2 ...

My professor is hitting on me. What am I supposed to do? Is this normal in college today?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - So I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. One of my professors is always hitting on me. I'm not saying this to sound conceited, I'm saying it 'cause I know. The other day he told me I looked gorgeous. Also, in my college we have our teacher's ...

How do I cope with this? My husband does not love me and does not like me helping my parents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and my husband is 38 years old he does not love my parents and he does not like me to help my family. so i want to divorce him . How can I get through this? please help me...

What's on this older guy's mind? Why doesn't he text me like he used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi i'm really confused... There's a guy i've been texting for sometime now. We have an age gap of 9 years but i really like him. We used to text throughout the day. When we first met, i really thought everything went well because he did text and...

I think my FWB is a sex addict. and the relationship is getting deeper. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - I am 38. I recently met a woman who is 26. She is very fit and has a voracious sexual appetite unlike any woman I have ever known before. I am suspecting that she may be a sex addict. We don't have sex every day because our schedules don't allow it...

How do you satisfy an older woman sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

4 December 2011 (M) - I am close to an attractive older woman who is 12 years older than me. I would like to consider sex with her. I am a bit concerned about satisfying her sexually if we do it.What are some ways to sexually satisfy an older woman? How can I make t...

Should I tell this man how I feel? I dreamed he passed away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - What does this dream mean ?. I know a man who is a lot older than me, and i think he is attracted to me. He has said that if was my age, he would go after me, and said i am special, and he winks at me a lot, and his friend told me that he told him ...

Urgent help needed!! I am meeting the creepy pervert who has my papers, in an hour and a half. How do I handle him and get my papers back? What can I tell him to offend him the way he deserves to be offended?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - Little urgent help please!!! I am a student and my financial situation is pretty bad at the moment. Things begun to look up when I landed a pretty decent part time job. The catch is I need to be a member of an association in roder to be able to ...

Should I change myself for him or stay the way I am?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - So my man is 9 years older than me, he is stuck in his ways n believes women should act n be a certain way. I'm conflicted because I'm falling in love with him and I am nothing like what he believes in. My question is should I change ways and be ...

How do I stop this "daddy complex"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - right im in a bit of a situation i seem to have developed a bit of a 'daddy complex' and i dont know how to stop it. im 16 and to be honest i dont have the best relationship with my dad ( whihc i believe contributes to this ) but all the men i fa...

What is with men being attracted to teenagers?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - I've seen a few questions on here about this. Guys if you're in your twenties why don't you want to date someone your own age? Why do you want to be with someone who hasnt even finished school? Is it because it's forbidden?...

She's 17. Do I keep in touch? Keep talking, or let her be until she is older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

1 December 2011 (M) - So im in college which is new to me after leaving the military and there is a girl in one of my classes who i absolutely enjoy talking to and she tells me she loves hanging out as well. she parks her car near mine most of the time so that we end ...

I'm afraid to make the 1st move because I've never done that before

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone I need some advice on a stiuation I am, many of you guys now but here is a recap. At my work there is a customer at my work an older guy (maybe 7-8 years older) who I am really attracted to. He always comes shopping frequently every ...