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anonymous
writes: Hello, I am talking to a guy who is 11 yrs oldcer than me who has been divorced and has kids. He is 36 and I am 25. He seems to be a really nice guy, and has a job in law enforcement which requires him to be on-call at all times. When we first started talking he was texting daily and we began calling eachother. One day we were talking and he started making playful sexual comments and i laughed about it at the time, but the next day told him it was kind of a turn off and offended me and that i wasnt that kind of girl, i am looking for a relationship not a playmate. he was offened at first b/c he thought we were just joking around and said maybe we should slow down if your doubting my intentions with you. i explained that i was was uncomfortable and then he thought abou it apologized and said he was stupid to joke about it in the first place telling me i am a sweet girl......since then he says hes busy with a work project so he hasnt called or texted very much but says he misses talking.........what should i think? is it just an excuse?
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (1 January 2012):
 Hello,
When you told him you were not the type to do the comments on the texts he took a step back. This gave him a reality check and he may have realised that you were not compatible with him. Therefore, he has begun pulling away. Only my idea though. I could be wrong. If he wants to talk, why not have a chat about this when he has time.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (1 January 2012):
 This could be his way of slowing down. Give it some more time and see what happens.
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