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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Partner invited friend over to stay while I am away

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 746 days ago

31 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - It being less than month since I moved in with my boyfriend and I’m thinking I’ve done the wrong thing. Last week, he blurted out in an argument that he had invited his friend over to stay for the night whilst I’m away working. I have never met her before and she lives wi... (173 words)

How to get over dissapointment of being so close to finding The One?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 744 days ago

31 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a guy who has so many characteristics I am looking for. He is so much of what I’ve hoped to have as a husband but never thought would exist out there. Long story short, he has three big deal breakers to him. These things are not in my hands, and they ... (217 words)

How do I stop thinking about her? I can't have her

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30 October 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I've always had a thing for a friend of mine and she recently confessed to having feelings for me too and that she's always thought about us being together. She was drunk when she said this, but I haven't been able to stop thinking about it since. The next day she said she was ... (118 words)

Is 30 too old to date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

30 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, this is my first time posting on here but I see people give really great advice. I am currently going through a divorce with my husband of 9 years. Nothing messy, we have just grown apart over the years and I put that down to being so young when we got married. I l... (220 words)

Lost attraction to my partner

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 751 days ago

27 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really struggling with what to do and how to handle this situation. I've been with my partner for 4.5 years. She's very emotionally supportive and is my best friend, but I have lost all of my physical attraction to her at this point and it kills me. I have spent nearl... (462 words)

Need advice on how to proceed in my relationshi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

27 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I have been together 7 years. We have been engaged since 6 months in. I cannot bring myself to take the next step and get married because I’m so terrified of marriage being surrounded by family members in unhappy marriages. Plus I’m unhappy myself Me and my... (951 words)

How do I come out to my female partner

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

27 October 2022 (M) age 22-25 - How do I come out to my female partner? Hey people, any help will be appreciated, I'm looking for advice on how I can get out of a situation I've stupidly got myself in. So, I'm gay but have a girlfriend and I really don't want to hurt hurt, but the longer it goes on the more ... (340 words)

Too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

25 October 2022 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, so I have a issue , uhh I may or may not masturbate, and I might have gotten addicted it just feels so good! But I kinda gross myself out, does anybody know how to stop? ... (37 words)

What if you are turned on by your physical therapist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 756 days ago

24 October 2022 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. My first name is Tanner. I injured my right shoulder in a fall trying to do parkour on some concrete structures. I am obviously not as good as I thought. I had other injuries but the shoulder is the big deal. So right now I am doing physical therapy for one hour 4 x week... (1175 words)

Why won't he block her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

24 October 2022 (F)

age 22-25 - So I’m in a new relationship and things are amazing he’s the most amazing man I’ve met. We have such a laugh together and he says he hasn’t felt like this in a long time and we had a mini break together which was fantastic and we message all day every day and he’s the one and ... (378 words)

I think he's cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 756 days ago

23 October 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Been seeing a guy on and off for almost 2 years met through online dating. My friend is also on the site I was on. She told me a guy matches everything that my boyfriend is its certain things only he does its very rare things. The profile matched apperance etc, it had no ... (156 words)

My boyfriend sabotages me looking good.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

23 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend ignores what it takes for me to feel like a woman and to feel confident. We are in a serious relationship for a very long time now, we share finances and it's gotten to the point where he just doesn't think it's necessary for me to get basic stuff for doing my ... (625 words)

Too far behind in life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

22 October 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - This is terrible because I know I should be happy for my health but my mental health suffers. So Nearly 35 haven't had sex in 12 years had bad experiences with girls when younger I tried just flings but felt bad if they started to like me more so ended it. Took a break from ... (183 words)

My sister inlaws mom wants my friends phone numbers

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

21 October 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - My sister-in-law's mother is a control freak. She has all of my sister-in-law's friends numbers, all of my brother's friends phone number, and their neighbor's phone number. She claims that she needs it just in case there is something wrong, she can track down my brother ... (227 words)

How do I tell my family I don't want them in the room whenI give birth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 758 days ago

21 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the youngest of 4. I have 3 older sisters and they have 3 or children each. Anyway it is my first time being pregnant. I remember going to my sisters doctors appointments and seeing them give birth. My parents made me watch my sisters give birth to prevent me from wanting ... (245 words)

Uninvited from friend’s wedding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

19 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my friend "Lisa" since high school and we are both 30 now. We weren't each other's best friends but were still close. We started hanging out more often in 2019. That was the year my ex-fiance and I broke up. She invited me to several socials with her close friends ... (619 words)

Low libido?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 762 days ago

19 October 2022 (M) age 51-59 - I've been married for 30 years. Recently we had some friends/relatives over for a day at the lake. My wife's cousin, more like a sister to her, has a new boyfriend (we'll call him Dave). He was there. Earlier in the day a fish bit his nipple and we all had a good laugh about ... (339 words)

Should I marry him? Wait or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 760 days ago

18 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancé and I have been together for 7 years and I’m still afraid to get married. He purposed at 6 months and I said yes because at the time things were going good but as time progressed it seems to have gotten worse. We are so different. He’s very quiet and I’m the talker. I ... (325 words)

Son not going to college or working, does not help around house

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 763 days ago

16 October 2022 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi and thanks So my son is 21 years old. After he graduated at 17, he's had no motivation to get a job or attend college. I have tried countless times to talk to him about it. I believe he suffers from anxiety. He's always over thinking everything and has trouble even ... (211 words)

Women and sex after 50

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

16 October 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m in my early forties and five months ago I started seeing a wonderful woman who’s 53. About us we meet the old-fashioned way, through mutual friends, she knew that i was single, and I know about her ex and her co-parenting relationship, she has 2 teenage boys… We’re get... (138 words)

No one at work supported me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

13 October 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m quite upset today after speaking to my colleague. I suffered two years of mental health issues. I had no one support me. Today I was mocked for my views on support for men when I said I didn’t feel the same. I was suffering from a break up and as a result I had dep... (435 words)

My husband wants to attend our high school reunion. I am worried about how we will be treated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 766 days ago

12 October 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - My husband. Zach, and I graduated from a all boy Catholic school in 2003. We didn't know each other was gay in high school since we both didn't come out of the closet until after we graduated. I always love spending time with Zach, even in high school. I'm extremely proud ... (154 words)

Did I answer her question wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 766 days ago

12 October 2022 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been seeing someone for around 3 months everything is going great and im starting to really like her, however the other day she asked my if ive ever had a one night stand and immediately got up and left afterwards, I answered honestly and thought nothing of it, but ... (137 words)

Tired of being hurt give my love to animals instead

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

12 October 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm an introvert. I live with my partner who likes his space as well. As a true introvert, I'm happy and completely content in my own company. I'm self employed and happy plodding on with what I need to achieve each day. I walk my dog and always put him first. Giving him the ... (496 words)

Can anyone please help me figure out what's going on with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 773 days ago

9 October 2022 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 33 and single. I've known guy for the last 10 years from way back when we were studying. Although we were never friends, we knew people who were common to us. He was always very polite and civil and might I add, a good 10 years older. He added me on facebook and we ... (403 words)

I use enemas to help please myself.does anyone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 770 days ago

9 October 2022 (M)

age - I have used an enema to enhance masturbation since I was a boy. They have been as good as or better than sex with my wife because when I masturbate I just have to please myself. With a wife I wanted to please her too. Am I the only one that does this. My wife knew I did this ... (107 words)

He is asking me for ideas on how to propose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

8 October 2022 (F) age 41-50 - I have a new partner (all started long distance) who I have been with on and off for 8 months - started in Feb - broke up on Mar 24 then he went home - came back in June - lived with me till mid Sept - then went home to get space and is back to me soon within a matter of days ... (647 words)

In a long distance relationship and I just found out that my gf is pregnant by another man!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 742 days ago

6 October 2022 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm in a long distance relationship (like across the country) and today I learned from a friend of my girlfriend that she is pregnant by another man. I confronted my girlfriend and she admitted that she screwed up a few months ago and while she was drunk she ended ... (133 words)

An old friend who has a crush on me has resurfaced

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

3 October 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently turned 40 years old. I dated a guy (not a relationship) way back when I was a teen. We ultimately did not work, but while we were seeing each other we were kind of close. We would fall asleep on the phone together etc. typical kid things. He has not been... (344 words)

My husband has a crush on a younger woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 762 days ago

2 October 2022 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband crushing on a younger female friend of ours. A few months ago I thought my husband was making inappropriate comments when under the influence of alcohol to our friend,also when her relationship was braking up my husband appeared way to involved with the advice giving. ... (250 words)

She told me her feelings now I can't stop thinking about her

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2 October 2022 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a massive crush on this friend of mine I met about ten years ago. She was honestly the wittiest, coolest, girl I'd ever met, and all I ever wanted was for her to like me. And not even romantically, I never dared hoped for that much. Eventually we became super close and ... (433 words)