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What if you are turned on by your physical therapist?

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Question - (24 October 2022) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2022)
A male United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hi. My first name is Tanner. I injured my right shoulder in a fall trying to do parkour on some concrete structures. I am obviously not as good as I thought. I had other injuries but the shoulder is the big deal.

So right now I am doing physical therapy for one hour 4 x week for 8 weeks and maybe longer depending on progress. After my PT they let me use one of the treadmills and I usually run for about 60 minutes. My post today is about the attractive female therapist I have been assigned.

I started with a guy therapist but another patient needed his help cause they were kind of off on their balance and needed someone who could lift them so he switched with this freaking cute as hell female therapist named Hallie. I noticed her the first day and did not think I would be lucky enough to get her but it worked out good for me.

She is actually very good at her job, very smart, great at motivating and encouraging, and like full of positive energy. It is like you want to make her happy and do your best. I am guessing she is late 20’s or early 30’s. It is hard to tell but no matter what she looks great and I am way into her.

Noticing hot females is not a big crisis, but the problem is that I am turned on every single time she makes physical contact with my body (especially skin on skin). The contact is nearly constant during the hour doing testing and exercises. She also measures my arm and chest muscles weekly to monitor for atrofe which was hot because she made me take my shirt off right there. She is not doing anything officially sexual, but her hands are all over my right shoulder, right upper arm, right pec, and my back in the shoulder area. She does this poking of my muscles in those areas she calls palpating. She also has me lift my shirt and palpates my ribs which still hurt like hell. It is just exercise and legit exam stuff but I am getting raging boners from it all.

I tried to hide the situation but I am supposed to wear loose fitting clothes and normal gym shorts do not hide this. She noticed me getting red in the face and acting weird and panicked and breaking out in a panic sweat and thought something else was wrong and asked and I just glanced down where my shorts were like totally tented. I whispered I was sorry and I cannot help it. She laughed but not like in a mean way and told me it happens a lot and she was “super complimented.”

I was like so relieved she did not think I was a perv even though I am obviously attracted to her. She actually handled it like a pro.

I asked about a pillow to cover my lap and she said “no, you are good.” At first I was thinking maybe she likes making me tent up but then it was obvious I am just changing positions a lot standing versus sitting for different things. So I am tented for the whole hour now doing my PT thing and she ignores it or pretends not to notice.

The most sexual comment is she asked if I considered masturbating before PT so I might not get hard during PT. I think it was like a legit suggestion to help me not feel awkward. I admitted I basically do that now every time and I still get a boner and she laughed and just said “wow” which either means she thinks I am a stud or that I am freak to masturbate that much.

She is totally using my attraction to her to motivate me. She calls me “stud” instead of my name a lot. She say things about how it is nice to work with boy athletes. I get so red in the face and she laughes then I laugh but laughing still hurts my ribs.

If I am finding an exercise or something painful or difficult she whispers “do it for me” in this like sexy voice and I swear it is like magic and I power through it and even if it hurts I don’t care because she is like acting all proud of me and rubbing my chest and shoulder afterward.

Basically, I am enjoying her attention and I don’t want PT to end. She is doing too good a job tbh and I am getting better too fast.

I am not stupid. I know she is not into me that way (or at least I sincerely doubt it). Even if she thinks I am cute for my age, the age thing is obviously a big deal. I am jailbait for her. And she would easily be able to get really cool guys her own age.

Sometimes it feels like she is flirting and maybe she is trying to get me as horny as possible with the compliments and feeling up my muscles. On the other perspective, if you like look at it from the outside she is just doing the normal stuff to help me and also trying to motivate me in my recovery. It is working because I have never missed a session, I am always early, I stick around and do more cardio, and I always do my best.

I have resisted the urge to say outright how attracted I am to her (even though my penis has sort of done that for me), but would it be cool to tell her that even just as a compliment not trying to make something happen? But that might take me from innocent horndog who cannot help it to weird perv who is actively fantasizing and crushing on her.

What about getting her a gift when I am done just like a thank you but also cause I hope she remembers me? I know that is maybe dumb, but do people ever do that? Probably I will not ever see her or talk to her again once my therapy is done, but it is like she has invaded my brain and just thinking about going to PT turns me on.

I have text messages from her but I am not sure if this is her personal text or something automated by the PT clinic. Should I text her at all other than my therapy? I sort of want to see if she would ever want to see me play baseball, but why would she want to go to a high school baseball game to see some former patient play? Am I crazy? Be nice please I am not a perv just I dig her a lot.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2022):

I will hide my reaction better and shut up and not say anything about my feelings. Wise I do try to hide it in those other situations and now I feel like you might think I am a sex freak. I am not doing it on purpose. I do not walk around school showing off my boner or whatever. I get the point from Honey and Wise about hiding it better. I also don't want her to get in trouble or be mad at me. I don't want you guys to be mad at me. I am sorry to be an idiot about this. I know it is a crush but it is like invading my brain and just is kind of intense. Thank you for telling me your honest opinions which I did ask for so you sure did. Thank you for friendly help too Kenny. Someone suggested a thank you note and they have a board where they post them there so I will do that. Tanner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2022):

Typo corrections:

"This is a situation that you have to learn how to control [your] urges, and behave like a civilized-male."

"Don't invite her to your games; because her employer could administer some form of suspension, or discipline, for fraternizing [inappropriately] with patients.

P.S.

Women and girls should not see you with an erection! You are to do everything possible to hide it. You are there under treatment by the facility, and exposing yourself aroused is considered bad-behavior, and very inappropriate. You can't help it, but you sure as heck know how to control it. Just think of something gross, and it will go-away; or shift your body so it won't be visible.

You're old enough, I don't have to tell you! I bet you don't walk around like that in front of classmates to get teased about it!!! Do what you do when you don't want to be seen like that in gym class or in the gym showers!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2022):

This is a situation that you have to learn how to control you urges, and behave like a civilized-male.

You are old enough to know how to properly behave as a patient around a female care-giver. She is not interested in a 16 year-old kid, and will not jeopardize her employment; by being overly-familiar with someone's underaged-son; left in her supervision and under her professional-care.

The text messages you receive are automated; and come from the therapy clinic's generalized messaging service. They may also be sent by office staff. They are never sent from anyone's personal phone, and they had better not be!!! All patients receive them. They are polite, but strictly about your appointments.

Forget about any attempt to contact her, for any reason other than your scheduled sessions. Once the session is over, go home. Fantasize all you like. Behave yourself. You won't get into any serious trouble trying to bother her; but she could get into very serious trouble being unprofessional with a patient. Her medical group could be sued by your parents.

Do not buy her any gifts, she is paid to do her job; and you are one of her many patients. Don't invite her to your games, because her employer could administer some form of suspension or discipline for fraternizing in appropriately with patients. Especially, with an underaged-minor!

Sometimes underaged crushing-teenagers will persistently attempt to contact adults they are crushing on. That could get them into serious trouble; because the adult is the one who takes all the responsibility, not the kid. The kid gets scared, when their parents find out and lose-it. Some won't speak-up when they should; or their parents get freaked-out, and just won't listen. It could cost her job and her reputation. It could make it hard for her to get another job, if she gets fired. What seems harmless to you, could blow-up into something quite serious for her. Understand?!!!

If she does anything inappropriate, she would deserve whatever punishment she receives; because she knows better, even though you may not.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2022):

kenny agony auntThis is just a school boy crush and nothing more. Unlike love crushes don't last forever and are often short lived.

I would refrain from thinking this is anything more that her being a professional body giving you PT therapy in order to get you back to tip top condition and nothing more.

I would imagine the tests you are getting are automated from the organisation she works for, these are normally direct and to the point, it is easy to tell the difference between an automated text and a text from an actual person.

Maybe a small gift at the end of your treatment to say thank you, but nothing more. At the end of the day you are a child, and she is a professional body, performing an important job on a wide range of different people, being kind nice and polite is all part of the job.

As i say, this is a crush, let it fizzle out of its own accord and concentrate on your sports.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (26 October 2022):

Honeypie agony aunt"Should I text her at all other than my therapy?"

Nope, not at all.

Her calling you stud might be to also make light of the situation, to show you it doesn't bother her that your body reacted.

You MIGHT want to wear a pair of compression shorts for your PT sessions. OR request another Physio.

You don't YET have control over your erections, but that will come in time so for now, get some compression shorts. |And no, absolutely do not invite her to come to see a game.

She is way too old for you, she is your physio and she is not into someone who is STILL a CHILD in the eyes of the law.

Get over your crush.

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